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How can you get over that?

2007-07-09 08:20:15 · 21 answers · asked by scoopie110 4 in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

Thank you for answering my question. I liked everyones answers. :)
Have a good day. Always keep your head up and a smile on your face.

2007-07-12 06:16:51 · update #1

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There is always a reason. It could be a chemical imbalance or simply the last straw. It could be pain that is affecting their mood without realizing it(this is what always put me in a bad mood.) It could be the way you were raised. If someone grows up seeing the parents and sibling getting angry when things don't go there way for apparently no reason than the kids pick up on it and act the same way. To them it is normal. If you want to change the behaviour it is best to find out the why. Without the why you can only treat the symptoms and end up on a lifetime regimen of drugs.

2007-07-09 08:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by linnea13 5 · 1 0

anger is an emotion
evolution made sure it was built into our behavior
"you took my food!" *anger* you get your food back
as for getting angry for no reason other than your chemically imbalanced
you might want to try dietary changes
I know it sounds bad but fatty meals, such as pancakes, can help put your emotions in check
stress is also a major factor, if you can eliminate unnecessary stress then the better
if you're aware that you're getting angry for no reason, then you should be able to rationalize with yourself, kinda like talking yourself to calm down
if you're emotionally and physically hurting yourself and those around you on these bursts of unprovoked anger, I would suggest getting professional help

2007-07-09 09:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by filosofo tacio 5 · 1 0

Life. What is the Purpose of Life? Life....Life....Life. People have so many opinions on this. But here is mine:

Life is not just breathing and spending your days. It is not waiting for death. Life is not about regret.
Life is about living. And when I say living I do not mean just breathing and walking and talking. I mean living.


I mean yelling across a mountain top just to hear words echo back to you.
I mean spreading your arms, getting bare feet, and dancing in the rain.
I mean sitting at a horizon and watching a sunset and letting all your days worries just dive away with that sun.
I mean singing at the top of your lungs without worrying if you sound good or bad.
I mean just running at full speed just 'cause.
I mean giving a destitute even a penny just to see a smile on their face.
I mean putting a big inspirational grin from your heart on your face even through moments of depression.
I mean putting a smile on those faces that are filled with sadness or wet with tears.

So, my friend, what is life? Life is simply living. But living for this world. There is so much sadness, melancholy, hate, sorrow, pain, and agony in this world. It wouldn't hurt to just get up in the morning and put a smile on your face. And think....that today...today...I'll live for this world. Today I'll dance in the rain just 'cause. Today I'll sing in a crowd just 'cause. Today I'll say hello to everyone I see just 'cause. Just 'cause there is enough sadness in this world...and maybe, just maybe, if I can put a smile on my face and cheer someone else up...AKA live for this world....maybe, just maybe, There will be some...a little bit of less sadness and melancholy in this world. Maybe...Just Maybe.

There you go, that's my opinion. Life is living for this world and without a reason. Just living for this world....just 'cause. Just cause you want to lessen that sadness that weighs this world down.

2007-07-09 09:27:40 · answer #3 · answered by Stargirl 3 · 1 0

They've probably been silently stewing over something for awhile and when you notice they've gotten angry, they've actually reached their breaking point.

Although there are the instances where someone has just had a really crummy day and you're the one to ask them the same thing for the 30th time of the day.

2007-07-09 08:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lily Iris 7 · 2 0

I think that inappropriate anger occurs because real problems are not addressed by that individual and when something stressful occurs in that individuals life they react inappropriately. The best way to get over it is to examine your self to find the root cause of the anger. Sometimes this may take a therapist.

2007-07-09 08:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by brotherlove@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1 0

Most people gets angry for no reason when they're feeling irritated, down, or if they're sad.

Sometimes they seemingly get mad for no reason becasue they want to hide their sadness. If they're irritated, they can get angry at something trivial.

Some people even get mad to try to get attention. The best way to avoid unreasonable anger is if you just pause, close your eyes, and controll your anger. Vent it through something else. Something that you enjoy that could keep your mind off whatever pissed you off.

2007-07-09 08:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Nightvision 2 · 2 0

The reaon i get angry thees days, is because my stupid solicitor messed up my divorce papers, so now i have to wait another couple of weeks before i hear anything, other than that i'm the nice's of people would'nt say boo to a goose.

2007-07-09 10:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by TRIKER CHICK 3 · 1 0

Bi-polar disorder. Fine one minute and throwing things the next. They need medication. They may not even know they are doing this or even be ok with it because they are so used to it. It doesn't just go away because if the person doesn't feel they are in the wrong they can't work to fix it.

2007-07-09 08:36:49 · answer #8 · answered by lovely 3 · 1 0

1.) They are familiar with it.

2.) It feels familiar to them

3.) Anger, like any other disposition, is the manifestation of habitual beliefs and practices

People need to make a HABIT out of politness and forgiveness and well-being instead.

Cultivating these things will leave no room in your emotional garden for anger.

Practicing these things will get you FAMILIAR with them, hence you feel comfortable being polite and content, hence they will become your good habits to replace Anger, the bad habit...

2007-07-09 08:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by The cat 3 · 1 0

people have reasons, that just may not be able to express them, or it might not suit you. how to get over this is for you to approach the situation differently, see what they are trying to relay to you.

2007-07-09 08:27:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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