Jo has JC of his son and has him 50% of the time.On the days we have him(tues/thurs/every other weekend) Jo is responsible for any dr./dentist appts that come up, sick/snow days ect.Jo chooses to do this as he is not required to do this by the court as she gets full child support and has residentail custody.The problem is we have a baby too but he "expects" me to do all the dr. appts/sick days.If our baby needs to come home from day care or go to the drs he allways has an "excuse" why he cant do it.If i push it he makes me feel like i'm a bad mom or hes doing me some great favor by helping me out but its his child too.He is very busy at work but so am i(we both work fulltime) plus he NEVER pulls this stuff with his exwife.Yes i have told him how i feel but he allways gets defensive whenever i bring up his exwife and he gets pissed.
2007-07-09 07:49:46 · 4 answers · asked by mary g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
O just let her know its because she lets him, so of course he'll get away with what he can, he's got a lost female here that doesn't know how love works.....whats sad is he is controled by his es, so sh!t rolls down hill, looks like it all goes into your lap.....
2007-07-09 07:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really this way or do you resent the attention the ex and child get?? If it is the way you say, give him a reality check and tell him who he is sleeping with now. You need some help and this is his baby too.
2007-07-09 07:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go on at him like you keep asking this question 5 times last time i looked, im surprised hes still with you
2007-07-09 08:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by english_man_knoxville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not making 3 of the same exact topic.
Help, DENIED.
2007-07-09 07:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by gencaster1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋