is it very painfull for the 1st time? ima female and wat sort of pain is it? how long does it last? thnks
2007-07-09 06:44:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It all depends on the shape of your hymen (there are like dozens of them). Most couples don't have much problem tearing it, but sometimes it can be very bothersome and require a doctor's help.
During the first intercourse, the hymen is broken and there's some bleeding, but nothing major. If you're nervous and tense, that may make it worse, so it's probably a good idea to have a couple of drinks before you try it.
Also, keep in mind that only about 50% of women manage to break their hymen the first time they have sex. The other 50% have it stretched, which prolongs the discomfort. In order to make sure it's broken the first time, you should spread your legs very wide and bend the knees and bring them towards your chest. That way the hymen will be very stretched and should be broken right away.
Oh, and of course your should use a condom, not only for the protection, but for the lubrication it provides. If you're not very aroused, your vagina will be dry which will make it even more uncomfortable.
2007-07-09 07:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Belzetot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you thinking about having sex for the 1st time?
Are you in love? How old are you? Are you aware of protective measures for yourself and him?
Once you give it away, you cant take it back. Make absolutely sure that you are not being rushed into this. It should be your call, when you are ready. And you will know when you are ready, when you are mentally and physically ready to deal with the results, whatever happens.
Stay young baby girl. Once you get old, you are old the rest of your life.
A MAN
2007-07-09 06:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by jr8551_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many variables to say if it will hurt for you. Using lots of foreplay to get you lubricated (or even an artificial lube like KY or even saliva) and going slow and easy will minimize any discomfort. You might even practice ahead of time with something small and soft like fingers... Learn what feels good to you so you can have him do them to you. That will also help offset any pain...
USE CONDOMS!!!
Play safe!
Best wishes,
Ed, RN
2007-07-09 06:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by RNcalledEd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 10:38:29 · answer #4 · answered by alpers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't have sex unless your really ready and your sure that you love the person and that he loves you back and that he wll stay with you just in case you get pregnant.From the way you asked the question it sounds like you are a young lady, and if you are then you should wait at least until your 18 or19 years old.
2007-07-09 09:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by babygurljoey16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little uncomfortable, but when you're making love to a person who truly loves you, he will be very gentle to you. Do be prepared for your first time and save it for the right person.
2007-07-09 06:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditto.
if ur afraid of how much yr 1st time will hurt, ur not ready to have sex!!
sex is a way to express ur love, dont have sex if ur head is full of questions like this one.
if u love thisperson this a gift that ur about to offer him. make sure he is the right one!
2007-07-09 06:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're very relaxed & aroused it shouldn't hurt that much, it should just feel a little burning & maybe stinging. But don't let it put you off though.
2007-07-09 06:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ĕrotic Ńightmare 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Done at the wrong time with the wrong guy for the wrong reasons can cause you pain the rest of your life.
Please learn to spell the word WHAT.
2007-07-09 06:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for women: bleeding occur but only for a short period of time like couple of minutes...you shouldnt really have pain and it so for a couple of seconds..but always be protective...make sure the man is wearing a condom...
2007-07-09 06:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by net385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋