Last Novermeber I had kidney failure and got my life back after a 50/50 chance of survival i pulled through only to be involved on a massive head on collision at the beginning of March this year whilst heading up North (Scotland ) to visit my kids and am still recovering from my serious injuries so i found a little interest on here Q/A,s only to have my account suspended last week and lost all my email addresses i am now so depressed anyone else had such bad luck in one year??
2007-07-09 06:23:44 · 41 answers · asked by Miss Principle's 3 in News & Events ➔ Current Events
THANK YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE YOU HAVE MAD MY DAY TA xxxx
2007-07-09 06:42:39 · update #1
no, I am
2007-07-09 06:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Laughing Out Loud 1 · 5⤊ 6⤋
Sorry to here you've had such a bad run lately. It can only get better. You can;t e so unlucky. Think about some of the really nasty replies you see posted here, the bitterness, spite and general spleen that gets vented by some folks. The personal vendettas, personal abuse in answer to questions, and if all else fails - there's lavatoryspeak.
They are FAR MORE UNLUCKY THAN YOU! What must it be like to need to insult and use poisonous speech.
There are a lot of decent, caring people on here, and you are one of them.
2007-07-09 08:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know, life throws us some pretty hard fast balls sometimes, the usual options are :
1) hit the damn things as hard as you can
2) dodge them
3) take them on the chin.
It appears to me that you're pretty good at #1 !! - fair play to you, you are stronger than you think.
All my life I've been hitting those damn things pretty hard - I've nearly fallen out of a ferris wheel, been chased by a mad alsation while on skates (me, not the dog) missing a moving car by 'phew !' , been thrown in the air by a bull (in the middle of a city !) and in that incident I broke my back - thankfully I can walk again. I've had 8 miscarriages, 2 car crashes and other 'incidents' which are just as bizarre but too numerous to mention. On average about 2 - 3 a year, but I'm a pretty damn good hitter and always come up smiling and very very thankful.
Anyway, sorry you've had it rough lately, it can only get better.
You will do fine - just smile a lot and be thankful XXX
2007-07-09 10:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My mom was killed in a car wreck.....I call that unlucky...and devastating ....
you will be ok...you're a fighter..you have proved this by overcoming the odds with kidney failure and a head on collision.....even though it maybe hard ...try to think positive about your situation....things will get better...
in 1994-1995...I lost five very close family members within a few months of each other (my mom, grandmother,father-in-law,uncle,and grandfather) out of all of them ..only one was expected (cancer over a long period of time)...the rest were sudden and unexpected.....talk about depressing..and life altering...those are my unlucky years to date..I just hope nothing like this will happens again in my life time...I don't think I could survive a second wave....
In the morning make yourself a fine cup of tea, coffee, or maybe a hot toddy (or two or three depending on how bad you are feeling = ) )..watch the sun rise.. breath in the fresh air and say to yourself..your better today than you were yesterday..and keep doing this..and you will start to feel better about things in no time......
I hope you have a quick recovery...and things look better tomorrow for you....
2007-07-09 08:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by LeftField360 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i'm having a bit of a crappy year too. my gardener collapsed and died whilst i was talking to him having a coffee in the garden and i was unable to save him. he was only 59 and a lovely fella, keep having flashbacks of him falling towards me and being unable to save him. 2 weeks later rushed into hospital with suspected ecptoic pregnancy kept in hospital for 10 days with kidney stones blocking my tubes which created a serious infection and my kidney function was compromised. was so ill did not eat for 12 days, but good news was i passed my college course and can now go to uni. take no notice of people saying give money to charities or think of sick people and realise how lucky you are. deep down you know that, and you have the right to feel shitty youve been through a lot but youre coming out the other side. hope things get better. good luck to you xx
2007-07-12 13:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to think positive and hang on in there. Things are on the up. You really have got your life back, trust me, you will feel better soon, you are recovering from serious injuries but improving day by day. I cannot advise on your account and e-mails, I am a complete computer idiot but there are an awful lot of lovely people on here who can help, I wish there was something I could do. I am thinking of you and have a hug from me.
2007-07-09 10:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by MADDY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people have lost a lot extra. those are cloth issues. there's a lot extra you are able to loose that could desire to be a lot worst. i'm confident the family individuals that lost there domicile might commerce places with you in a minute. Or the solider that lost his leg might too. according to hazard the little woman that lost her existence using affliction might have incredibly lost her cellular telephone. think of approximately it. issues could desire to consistently be worst. If that's what you call being unlucky then you definately're an exceedingly fortunate person.
2016-12-10 06:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I seem to have been lucky health wise, touch wood. However i have a good friend who has diabetes and over the years he has had cataracs, kidney failureand liver problems to name but a few. Just before Christmas he got a kidney transplant and it has transformed his life. it couldn`t have happened to a nicer person. Stick with it, it will get better.Honest!
2007-07-09 07:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
count your blessings and look at it another way. You are the luckiest person, you had kidney failure and you got through that. You've had an accident, but although you're in pain, you are getting through that. You are a survivor and therefore lucky to be alive. Cheer up, it can only get better.
2007-07-09 07:16:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Try and look at it the other way around, you survived two life threatening situations, someone is looking down on you so this makes you lucky!!! Take care of yourself and remember all the things in life that you are thankful for, I often feel very down and negative and then i count my blessings.
2007-07-09 06:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
sorry about those incidents. i think it is likely you will still have your yahoo account? i did have a bout of bad luck in a relationship just a few weeks ago but, i am trying to look on the bright side and be thankful that i am alive, have health and strength and i will stand tall and be proud i kicked his sorry butt...lol....hope that made you laugh. chin up luv.
2007-07-09 07:11:25 · answer #11 · answered by daisy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋