You fall for a married woman and she suspects it, or worse still knows it. You don't have the nerve to ask tell her about it and she feels that you are shy, thereby taking the initiative to lead you on. You are too taken aback tnat you can't even talk to her. She calls you at times yet you are now afraid of her yet you still want her? Want her physically and no-more. What would you do if you were in this scenario?
2007-07-09 05:57:29 · 18 answers · asked by sircrunchie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Let her go. If she cant be faithful to her own husband, what makes you think she'll treat you any better? also, if its just a physical attraction i would also say MOVE ON becuase thats not a real relationship. This is just a disaster waiting to happen. Wait till the husband finds out... and it wont even be for a good reason, like love, the whole thing will be based on something stupid.
2007-07-09 06:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by frenchtoast88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to want someone physically but the fact that she is married is just not worth it. You need to end this craziness as soon as possible. First of all, you deserve better. Secondly, she is nothing but trouble and I am sure her husband wouldn't be too nice about it either. Thirdly, there is too much out there that would love to make your day without the attachment of a bunch of bs. Good luck.
2007-07-09 06:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably reading too much into her actions, and seeing what you want to see instead of what is really there. Regardless, you know what you should do - put principle before pleasure, and stay away from temptation. Cut contact with this woman, and don't talk with her unless you absolutely have to. Set all your phones to block her number. If she asks you openly about it, be honest and firm - tell her that you think it's best if you don't communicate anymore.
2007-07-09 06:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are thinking about doing is wrong man.If you go through with this you could mess up a lot of peoples lives here all for a one night stand.Think about her family I hope she doesn't have children.There are a lot of women out there to choose from.What if the situation was turned and you were married.Would you want to mess up your family life all for a quickie.I wouldn't.
2007-07-09 06:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by Steven C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you aren't married then I would say what do you have to lose. If she has kids, thats one thing, I may or may not venture to, but if not kids or they're older and grown then whatever. Also, I'm sure she just wants the same out of you, depending on yours or hers situation, she may or may not get a divorce? But bottom line basically is if its not going to be you, then its going to be somebody else.
2007-07-09 06:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even open up your feelings to a married person? You allowed yourself to "fall for" someone who should be off-limits, so it's up to you to let it go and stop allowing yourself to be led around like a bull with a ring in his nose.
Be a real man with pride and integrity, and don't waste your time on someone with low or no morals or values. Bad karma.
2007-07-09 06:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are asking for trouble and will come away with emotional wounds. You don't want a woman who comes with "baggage" like this. There are many fish in the sea, try to catch another one and learn from your mistake.
2007-07-09 06:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by liberty11235 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave her. She's married! And getting in a realationship with her will ruin her marrrige life. She may be happy with the man she is married to. Don't go any further unless you find out she is seriously unhappy with her marrige.
2007-07-09 06:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ella G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a woman who is NOT married and be with her.
2007-07-09 06:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do? As for me, I'd get away from her as fast as possible.
2007-07-09 06:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋