Why are people mean just cause of my weight?

Question

Look you fools i know i'm fat and have weight problems but that doesnt mean im not a good guy. i treat older people with respect and do my chores like a good boy. i love pets and study my bible when im not here hanging out on the internet. i love my family and God and try to clean up aftermyself!!!! Why is it that all you can see is my fat! Sometimes I hate you but i gotta learn to love you even though you hate me.
Sorry if i sounded like i was on drugs but man people insult me a lot. So why they so mean to people that are rounder than them?

Answer 1

Lay off the doritos & you'll find out.

Answer 2

First of all, those people that are mean to you just because of you're weight are shallow and stupid people. They are very immature and obviously have no manners.

But you should get mad at all of us and call us fools. Don't assume that everybody is that way. People who insult others based on their physical appearance are ugly people themselves. Why do people do such evil things to each other. Everyone's different - if everyone was exactly the same body weight and shape that would be a very boring world. We all were born differently, and some people are just naturally thin and some are naturally stocky or round. Some tall and small short, and nobody can change their natural appearance. You can get plastic surgery but that can only change a little bit, and basically that's something that most people don't do. It should only be done in very serious situations, not for small things like one's nose shape, or a love handles, etc.

Anyway, don't listen to those foolish people taunting you about your weight. It only reflects on how immature and shallow they are.

Answer 3

I am really sorry people are mean to you like that. Unfortunately in our society overweight is associated with:

*not caring about your health
*laziness
*gluttony (eating like a pig)
*ugliness
*...and a lot more...

They just make assumptions like these. Well, some of them do. For other people it may be a subconscious thing, the way some people are a bit wary of blacks without realizing it. Some may just be uncomfortable around you because you're different. Just like people who might feel weird around blind people or someone with an amputation.
Others have a hard time accepting flaws. Some people find flab disgusting. Don't feel too bad. There are others who dislike acne, body hair, big feet, stretch marks, and so on. NOBODY can win. Keep doing what you're doing and somebody will see through to the real you. Also, keep in mind that some will just never change.

Answer 4

Well, I am sorry to hear that. I used to be "round" myself, but realized after being ill all the time that I was causing more damage to my own body than anything. I have lost alot of weight from just being ill, which is a horrible way to lose weight. I went through some of the same things you did, but one thing that I did learn was people don't see you, until you learn to love yourself. Believe it or not all those people that make fun of you do it because they know you don't accept your own body either. Once I learned and realized that I may be stuck in the same big body forever I was able to make more friends and be accepted. Having everyone accept you isn't everything though. Just be happy that you are loved and respected by your family mostly. That is what really matters. Take Care!

Answer 5

Weight is an easy target for people to pick on but I find that usually the person who has a weight problem and gets ridiculed for it, also has a personality problem. The weight is easier and sometimes more hurtful for others to target rather than personality traits. I know of some people who get picked on and others that don't and it totally depends on the persons personality not the weight.

If it bugs you that much, do something about it and stop bitching. Don't give them anything to tease you about. If you don't like the direction your life is going, its not up to others to except you, it's up to you to change your life. Face whatever the reason is that your over weight. You seem to be getting irritated at people because they aren't fat so what's the difference? You just told everyone that you hate them, but you 'gotta love us. No you don't, and no one HAS to like you either. So, before ever knowing my opinion or thoughts on the subject you assume I don't like you because your fat, which is wrong and judgemental of you to say. Which are the reasons at this point I'm not really liking you, your being judgemental which I don't appreciate. It has nothing to do with your weight.

Answer 6

Listen, dont worry about all that! If you concentrate on your positives you will be just fine. If you want to lose weight, just try not eating as much fatty foods especially after say 5 or 6 p.m. and try to exercise as much as possible. You will feel better after you start exercising and its better for health reasons if you try to stay within a certain range. People are always going to talk, no matter what you do, if you were too skinny, believe me they would have a problem too, they would wonder if you're sick and so on, so dont worry too much about that, its what you feel that matters. Good luck and God Bless! Remember for health reasons, do all things in moderation-- including eating.

Answer 7

All the people on here slagging of this guy because of his weight need to get to hell.

I am slim myself, but my Mother is a large lady and is extremely happy. Before you call her a fat bi*ch, bear in mind she has Diabetes and her weight can not be controlled easily due to her medication.

If people are fat and happy, then GOOD. There is nothing wrong with being large.

Size Zero is disgusting. Nicole Richie and the likes are all vile vulgar twigs who encourage Anorexia and drug taking.

More power to Mo'Nique and people like her!

Answer 8

Because, obesity is a problem. It's also not very flattering to have OR look at.
Misconceptions about obesity: you are obese because you are lazy.
Most people assume you are obese simply because you're too slothful to go to the gym. Which is probably the case.
When over 50% of the country if obese, then it's not a 'hormonal' or thyroid issue.
Also, when I returned from a vacation in China, the first thing I noticed in the Chicao airport was that people were obese.

If you have a 'condition' that makes you obese, then I regret the pain my fellow man has caused you. However, if you are obese simply because you refuse to stop eating junk and get in the gym, well, then there is no sympathy. Don't complain about something you can control.

Answer 9

People can be very mean, and make fun of people who don't look like them because they think they are better than them, But keep on studying your Bible and it will let you know how mean people can be, but God will make those same people your foot stool, keep praying because Christ is the answer and have a way of making people be kind to you.

Answer 10

They are mean because they are ignorant, Remember when Christ was hanging on the cross he said "Forgive them Father for they know not what they do". (Ignorance is sin to me)

As for your weight problem, Go see an Endocrinologist, (A doctor that understands about glands and such) Sometimes they can help alot! Have your adrenal glands checked. Prayers to you.

Answer 11

Because they are scared themselves, that they might lose control and gain weight... that would make thém unhappy so they don't want to see it from others. and by putting you down, they hope to never go through it... the idiots... You are fine as you are and the weight is your battle. no one else's. and if they keep being mean,... maybe you should show them that a fat person can squash a skinny one...? or at least make them understand that of course :-)))))