I really want to pursue acting but I don't think my parents will let me so I'm afraid to ask :(?

Question

I want to be an actor soooooooooooo bad, but I don't know how to ask my mom. Anyone have an idea on how to ask her so that she'll take me seriously and wont shoot me down right away?

I am in my school theatre program. I've been in it as long as I've been old enough to.

Answer 1

Of course you need to ask your parents, but why do you think they wouldn't let you? You won't know until you ask. The best way to go is to get all the information first. Have everything well though out before you even go there with them.

I don't know where you live, but unless it's a small community, the newspaper may not be the best resource. For theatre, you can go to backstage.com or http://www.actorsequity.org/castingcall/... If you find the audition on the Equity site, you still may be able to go, as long as their not taking appointments from equity actor's only :-) On backstage.com you have to pay to get all of the info, but the initial search is free and you may be able to see enough info to find out the rest on your own without paying. Most theatres have audition info on their site so if you can see the theatre's name, just go directly to their site and get the info yourself.

Try to find out as much as you can. Where is the theatre (get directions on mapquest), what dates does the show run, what dates are rehearsals scheduled to start (FYI, most theatres rehearse their shows Mon-Fri every night 7-10 or later). That's general, every theatre is different, so ask. Some rehearse on weekends too. Ask if you have to make an appointment to audition, ask if they provide an accompanist, ask if they prefer ballads or uptempo songs for the audition, how many bars may you sing, do you need to have a monologue prepared, will they cold read from the script, will they have sides available from the script ahead of time, etc.

You can get information on some shows from these websites:

www.musicaltheatreaudition.com
www.stageagent.com
www.musicals.net

This is where you start. Get into theatre, get into acting classes, and build a resume. Backstage.com also has audition notices for student films and other projects. You can build your resume with these then try to get an agent if you want to move on to TV & film.

If you want to find a legitimate agent to represent you for commercials, TV & film go to Sag.org. Use the dropdown menu on the right labeled 'resources' and choose 'agent information'. On the next screen, on the left choose 'Find a SAG franchised agent' and follow the directions. You can look up agents all over the US, but there are higher concentrations where the work is (Los Angeles, NY, IL, FL, GA etc.)

Then you can send them your headshot, resume, and a cover letter stating that you are seeking representation and wait to see if they call you in for an interview.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I would suggest getting involved with your school theatre program, but if that is not a possibility for you, your local park district may be able to point you in the proper direction to get started! You also may want to try acting in some local plays, explaining to your mom that you think it would be fun, and meeting new friends, etc. After a few great performances by you, you should tell her that you really think you have found your calling, and then research colleges that are known for their Thespian programs and show her that you are truly serious in this pursuit, or your begging will look like nothing more than a teenager's selfish rant to become rich and famous.

Answer 3

This is hard for a lot of people. Make sure you tell her calmly how much this means to you, and how determined you are to work hard. Also make sure she knows that you understand it's a tough business. Oh, and do this without getting your voice all high-pitched and teenagerish, or talking really fast, etc. Sound mature. (Not that I should be talking..)
Good luck!! Your mom just wants you to be happy, so even if she doesn't accept it right away, it's cuz she loves you and is worried about you. She'll come around!

Answer 4

Look in your local newspaper for a play that you'd like to do, and then when you find one go, "Mom, I wan't to be in this play. Will you drive me there?" or "Mom, I want to be in this play. Will you let me?" or "Mom, I want to be in this play. Will you support me in this endeavor?" something like that.

Answer 5

if u want sumthin really bad in life, go 4 it gal... ur ambition & determination will guide u thru..

Answer 6

IF THAT'S WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY THEN YOU SHOULD GO FOR IT. WHY DO YOU NEED TO ASK YOUR PARENTS IF YOU CAN DO THAT? EVEN IF YOU DID ASK THEM, THEY SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT TO DO AND MAKES YOU HAPPY.