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You are in a club in Vegas. It is a great night; you and your significant other (or spouse) have both been drinking, dancing and having a great time.

You've met some people at the club, strangers, but lots of fun. One of the women in that group is a lot fo fun and has been talking with both of you most of the night.

The night is getting late. The friendly woman from the group leans in close to your significant other (or spouse) and says she would like to go back to your hotel room with both of you and have a threesome.

Does your significant other (or spouse):

A. Say HELL NO

B. Say HELL YES

C. Say IT'S VEGAS, LET'S GO FOR IT

D. Say NO, but later regret it

PLEASE -- put your age, gender and marital status in your answer. AND PLEASE explain your answer.

2007-07-09 05:05:56 · 54 answers · asked by Raster T 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

54 answers

A.

I'm 36, female, and married. And the answer would be the same regardless of the gender of the propositioner or which one of us was asked. We're not into sharing - we would not have gotten married if we were.

2007-07-09 05:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5 1

A: Say HELL NO

I am 32 and a female and i am in a relationship and been living together for 4 years and known each other for 15 i'll tell you this much i would never ever do that Yes there's having fun and chatting with people but there is taking it 2 far and to do that that would be taking it beyond to far

Threesomes are not all there cracked up to be when i was younger and single i had done that and i didnt' exactly like it.

But in a relationship i would never do that and feel that it shouldn't be done in a way it puts issues where they don't need to be.
I would personallly NEVER bring a third party into the sexual part of our lives it's wrong.

It Can And Does in some situations put jealousy and insecurity where it plainly doesn't need to be . It can put trust issues there and it can put questions in their minds like why would he/she want to do that am i not enough for them or like i thought things were fine why bring someone else into that part

And it's Plain that is the Ultimate Disrecpect of your significant other to bring someone else into your sex life

2007-07-09 05:21:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I am female, age 52 and Engaged. If this happened to us, My Fiance would probably Not say a word and Look at his feet. He and I had this discussion 6 years ago when we first met and I explained to him that if I was Not Enough Woman to satisfy him then to Hit the Road. Hes never brought this subject up again. Our Sex Life is great and so is our relationship. I would simply reply to the Woman, "No Thanks" I Know how to take care of My man without any help and (Smile)

2007-07-17 03:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0 0

My answer is: A: Hell NO!!!!

I am a 32 y/o married female. There was a time when I would have SO done it, then my husband had an affair, and I can't even imagine sharing him now, and on top of it, WATCHING IT! I think the whole time I would be envisioning him and his lover together. So, yah, he ruined his chances of a 3some, if only he would have shared his whore with me, but in my opinion, she was ugly and I wouldn't have been interested anyways. What a stupid foolish little man he was! I even told him he ruined his chances of a 3some, so he knows the boundaries now. Lets just say he better stick to them, and always be faithful and NEVER even so much as suggest a 3some or I'll cut it off!!!!!

2007-07-09 05:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

My 31 yr old husband would say HELL NO. I'm 40 and we are VERY happily married and we saw an episode of CSI that had that situation happen in it. We also are amazed that people are falling into that immoral trap that the people are pushing for Vegas. No, it is not okay to screw around and do God- Knows-What and go home and everything is fine. If it happens in Vegas, it will more than likely happen at home too. Then there are more people on Yahoo!Answers saying they messed up, Can you help me?

2007-07-16 05:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by roloswife 3 · 0 2

A.
I'm 22,single.if I was married I wouldn't see a point of sleeping with someone else.A relationship/marriage is between 2 people not three(3).It may be Vegas but it's one night versus the rest of your life.

2007-07-17 03:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

that's not a easy question to answer,I am a woman,i am 26 and has been married for 5 years.That sounds like it would be alot of fun but can you handle the after effects.That could be a very dangerous game to play with your marriage,but if you think you and your husband can handle where that might go then all i can say is be safe and strap it up

2007-07-16 13:44:08 · answer #7 · answered by neesha 1 · 1 0

Every one react differently, depending on the individual. So there is no one answer. What's the difference how old I am. I am not a teenager, and I am above 25, and younger than 45.

Most people would pick A.

2007-07-15 02:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0 0

C.Say IT'S VEGAS, LET'S GO FOR IT (then you can always use that memory to get your husband to keep taking you back to Vegas)

43, Female Divorced
I say this because I love Vegas and a threesome is something that everyone needs to try.

2007-07-16 15:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I am 19, young I know but have been married for two years. If my spouses response isn't A.Hell no. then he can do whatever he wants with her because after giving him a good kick in the balls I wouldn't been around. Because of making similar mistakes I got cheated on. That stuff always goes farther than its supposed too. Especially if your relationship is having problems.

2007-07-14 08:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by southerngirl 3 · 2 1

Hell No!!! would be my answer and my spouses answer .why would you cheat? its cheating, doesn't make it any better if your both involved in the act. Plus me being a woman why would i want to have a threesome and share my husband with another woman.If my husband was wanting to go for it i would question our relationship and if he made a big deal of it i would leave him.

2007-07-17 01:46:25 · answer #11 · answered by lsp 5 · 0 0

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