Couples dancing with other people?

Question

So my boyfriend and i were discussing going to the bar or the club and dancing with other people (we are both asking this question) . we've been together for just a few weeks shy of a year. By the time i turn 21 he still wont be able to go. I love dancing and my boyfriend thinks that if i want to go to the club or bar that i should go with him. first of all, what is your take on if i should wait or not and secondly would it be wrong if someone were to ask me to dance and i accepted. Please only serious answers.

Answer 1

If you're a couple and you both enjoy dancing, then why dance with others???

Answer 2

Well if you really want to go to the bar........

My fiance is 25. When I turned 21 I wanted to go out to the bars. That was fine with him. He would either stay at home or hang out with his buddies and I would go to the bar with the girls... well all of that was fine because he trusted me. And then one of the girls I went out with (who had a boyfriend) went home with another guy! I told my fiance about it, and then he said he didn't want me hang out with her anymore. So everytime she invited me out to the bar, I had to decline... if I didn't decline it would just start a big fight at home and I didn't want to take that chance... I still go to the bars on occasions, but only if my fiance goes with me. I don't want him to think that I would go home with another guy just because one of my friends did it...

Personally, I wouldn't dance with anyone at the bar because dancing isn't what is really on their mind... if you dance with them, they will continuously hound you to sleep with them or date them. My friends dance with guys at the bar... they all have boyfriends... but they don't tell their boyfriends about it. I don't know, but me personally, I wouldn't want to dance with any other guy than my fiance.