Me and my husband got married four years before.He kissed me in past but very few and now from last two years he never kiss me.our marriage life and sex life is good.But i always feel that there is something missing without a kiss.i asked him many times but he never reply with satisfactory answers.he says that he does not feel so.Please help me out
2007-07-09 04:32:16 · 17 answers · asked by Urvi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe he never was into kissing in other words it's not his thing as for me to kiss my husband or he to me i have to be drunk and he has to be in heat the reason i don't want to kiss him is because he has bad breath and his reason who cares
2007-07-09 04:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kissed you all the time before and then stopped, that would be one thing. But you indicate he'd never really been that interested in it. Some people just don't like to kiss. It's that simple. Nothing wrong with you (or with him). Hard to explain why some things gross you out and others don't. Maybe his creepy aunt Edna with the crooked teeth and rank halitosis used to force him to give her a kiss when he was 4 and it affected him for life.
At any rate, if it is important to you, talk to him and let him know, but also be understanding of his feelings. Hopefully you can reach a compromise.
2007-07-09 04:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Rum R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like kissing, have you asked him why he doesn't kiss you? It could be that he's worried about his teeth or breath. It could be that he doesn't like kissing. Maybe there's a compromise position, a nice gesture that he would feel comfortable with that you would accept as an alternative: a hug, a squeeze of the hand...
But the whole thing starts with honest communication, and you're going to have to initiate that conversation. Do be angry with him, just talk honestly. You like kissing, and you notice he doesn't kiss you. You like the intimacy with your loving husband, so you'd like to know if he doesn't like kissing or if there's something you can help with...
Good luck--
2007-07-09 04:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem i love kissess could sit all day snogging but my other half hardly kissess me anymore and when i try to kiss him he always pulls away really quickly anyway then i get more upset when we first met 8 yrs ago we always kissed im not sure about you and yopur partner but it does get you down,we have a really good sex life to maybe there just people who dont enjoy kissing as much as people like us ,i wish i could answer the question for you but i carnt you need to ask him if theres a problem,ask him or youll never know.
2007-07-09 04:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried starting the kissing? Kiss him first and kiss him like you want to have sex with him right now. See if he can reply in kind.
2007-07-09 04:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 20 and he has never kiss me while having sex
2016-11-28 13:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by nine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its bad breath .........just kidding
i have the same problem i dont like kissing my spouse but love being intimate with him i always use the excuse that hes a wet kisser but dont know if thats exactly the reason i dont like kissing him i guess some people just arent cut out for it
2007-07-09 04:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by mmedina96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of people dont kiss thier partner because they are insecure about their teet or mouth. Or maybe he thinks hes not a good kisser... Sit him down and tell him this really bothers you and see if you guys can work it out. good luck
2007-07-09 04:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey i am the same way....i never kiss my husband...and we have a great sex life...I guess I dont like to kiss...I mean really what is a kiss when you can hug or do other things.
2007-07-09 04:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't kiss you much before you got married? Then there it is unlikely that he will change. Take the initiative you kiss him instead....take his face in your hands and plant him one...maybe he'll get the message.
\...have you asked him why?
2007-07-09 04:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Blonde Rebellion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋