Did anybody here had dated a cancerian?

Question

or are still dating on or married to one now.

How did the relationship start first?
I want to know because i am madly in love with one and we are not dating yet. I just want to know everythin start between you two.
I just want to know the signs.

His sun Cancer
Moon Scopio
Venus Gemini
Mars Libra

My Sun Gemini
Moon Gemini
Venus Gemini
Mars Scopio

Please help
thanks

Answer 1

I don't know all the signs, but i am a Gemnii and my husband is a Cancer.

He is sensitive, thoughtful, protective, an independent thinker, makes friends easily, can fix anything (including your problems). If he wants something, there is no stopping him from getting it. He doesn't mind cooking or cleaning the kitchen. He is very fair with everything. Family is EXTREMELY important to him. He likes to do things, but at heart is a homebody. He is very sentimental and won't throw away ANYTHING his kids made. All gifts are treasures.

He is also a procrastinator, impatient and a bit intense.

Call it fate:
In the summer of '65 we met at a party. A month later I had an accident. He showed up at the hospital with flowers. After I got out he came over every day to help me and my parents.

We started to date and fought. He called me names and embarrassed me. A few months later he would call again. I would get excited, but didn't know why. We'd date and fight again. This went on for a couple of years.

We married other people and went our separate ways. Thirty-two years later I was divorced, but dating someone. He was recently divorced. He didn't know my last name anymore, but searched phone books and mutual friends trying to find me. He called and we talked. He convinced me to seek counseling for my 5 year unhappy relationship. He became my best friend. Two years later I finally broke up with the other guy.

We have been married for ten years now. I never knew what love was until I let him back into my life. We both grew up and can discuss things instead of fighting. He is the love of my life.

Answer 2

I have known many cancers in my lifetime. I think the only saving grace in this possible relationship is that the two of you have a Gemini connection with his Venus in Gemini, and a Scorpio connection with moon/mars, which could be a little tough.

Cancer is a very feeling individual, and with the moon in Scorpio, also very intense. His Venus Gemini will give him a lighter side, as will his Libra moon. I say it will take him quite some time to commit to a relationship (I don't know his age, and this will have a huge impact). But when he does finally decide to commit to one person instead of being the social butterfly and enjoying all women, he will be a wonderful, caring, partner. If he is young, his commitments may be intense, but they won't last long.

My suggestion, since you seem to have already done some of your homework, is to go to astrodenist, work up the free chart drawings for both of you, then go thru the interactive horoscope portion for "astro click partner". You will see a composite chart.

It is an excellent learning tool, and that is what this is all about, learning?

I truly believe that the stars foretell, they do not compel, and human free will always takes precedence. The first rule is to know yourself, then you can begin to understand others.

Here is the site, and enjoy!
http://www.astro.com/horoscopes/ahor.asp

Answer 3

I dated a Cancer once and all I can say is... RUN! Run woman, run now!

It started out hot, very hot, very very hot.

It was sexually beyond description, emotionally void, and ummm he took advantage of my young eager mind.

He was the consummate bad boy and I was the consummate masochist who stayed around too long. Drugs were involved, at his encouragement, and I fear I would not be here right now had I stayed.

Have you seen the movie 9 1/2 WEEKS? Add drugs and some goth music and that is EXACTLY my relationship with that Cancer who would literally become a cancer in my life.

Like Kim Basinger, I just one day said, "What the hell am I doing here? I know I deserve better. I've had enough."

I just left, never looked back, never saw him or spoke to him again. He tried to see me, but I just shut off everything where he was concerned.

I'm an Aquarius and will NEVER date a Cancer again.

Answer 4

I'm a Gemini girl that married my Cancer huband when I was 22, and he was 25! Go Get Him Girl!! They are the Catch of the Sea!!! 15 years married and I still adore him and Thank God for him!! They're very "home-oriented". Family is very important to him. NEVER say anything negative about his mom (usually a very tight bond). To get his attention: invite him to your family gatherings so he sees that family is important to you. They love to be cared for (like mom did)! Make his favorite meals, worry over him if he has a cold, etc. Be smart with your $, they hate spendthrifts! Good luck!! They're VERY LOYAL!! To family, friends, and of course the woman he chooses to spend the rest of his life with!! Hope I helped you!!

Answer 5

I would have to agree with M. Rod. I am also a gemini married to a cancer, and in fact nearly all of my boyfriends before him were cancers!!
we have been together for 5 years and married for 2, and i have to say that cancers are the BEST. they are the most loving, loyal, committed, romantic people in the world.
good luck:)

Answer 6

concertinas...

subjective
intuitive
introspective
moody
emotional
imaginative
dreamy
patient
retentive
fearful
overprotective
fretful
security-conscious
domestic
materialistic
subtle
manipulative
thin-skinned
pretty
vengeful
high sex drive
sensitive
nostalgic
crabby
sentimental
magnetic
tenacious sensitive ego
mediocre self-esteem
possessive
self-centered
selfish
great sense of humor
dramatic

well these are their positive and negative characteristics...
good luck dating

Answer 7

Invite him at the restaurant. Duh. His type likes to mix, gossip, feel divine, and to eat truckloads of swedish dinners. That's my point of view at least. :)