What can you do about unreliable friends? I go to college out-of-state, and they never come to visit me, despite my visits to their schools. I always plan trips and get-togethers during the summer, but they always fall apart. It's "Oh, man, that costs money. I can't pay for that.". And the thing that pisses me off most: last-minute back outs.
Last weekend, I planned a trip to the beach for Sunday. I had six of us going. So, Saturday I pack up my car, make a lunch, get prepared... Then Saturday night, I get multiple phone calls: "Something came up..." "I'm in another city and can't get a ride..." "Oh, I decided to do something else instead." All of this at 10:30pm the night before! Needless to say, no beach trip.
Will they ever get their act together?
2007-07-09 02:36:04 · 3 answers · asked by bluedevil1642 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That's not the way you treat someone who you call your friend. I suggest you find new ones. What you describe is crap.
2007-07-09 02:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well they are maybe just making excuse as to not hang with you as to not being good or true friends, My suggestion is ask them why they do that every time you get something together as of planning to go to the beach. Who knows if they will actually get it together and ya know if they don't that is giving you a hint that they want nothing to do with you and that you should get some new friends.
2007-07-09 09:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by love_spell_64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about them, get some real, genuine friends..
2007-07-09 09:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Em 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋