Sisters: If your brother got married,?

Question

what could his wife do to make you feel better about having to share him?

She does not like me, we will not be spending quality time with each other.

I'm the wife, not the sister.

No, not from wyoming.

Thanks to all the people that thought I was the sister... your comments way helped me feel better.

Answer 1

Wife comes FIRST. Always.

Answer 2

His wife could gently remind you that he is your brother and his happiness should be all you need to let go. He'll always be your brother but "sharing" isn't a good way to put it. He's your brother and he's her husband...it's completely different ends of the spectrum. Are you married as well? If not, maybe take this a sign that you need to move on and find true happiness of your own, not follow your brother's path. I do hope you're not giving this girl a hard time out of jealousy as this makes a marriage VERY difficult.

Answer 3

There is alot of difference in a wife and a sister. I dont know what kind of sister you are but I didnt have a problem with my brothers getting married Im there sister.

Answer 4

I think the word sharing is highly inappropriate. A man should always treat his wife as his highest priority when it comes to relationships. A sister comes way down the line.

Answer 5

If i am your brother's wife ,i should not order he to do this or that ,and share he with his family , because he is he sister's brother and his mother's son , all his family love he deaply , but he is my wife what i most loved man ,i will love he all my life than any other people(i am a boy from china ,english is not very well ,excuse me )

Answer 6

Uh, you are not sharing your brother. He is an independent person who has the right to pick his own spouse, live his own life without needing input from his family, and to create his own family. If you are close, great. But it's not his wife's job to appease you and it isn't your brother's job to fill up your life. It sounds like you are dependent on him. Maybe you should go out and date and stop trying to make your brother the man in your life.

Answer 7

do you hang out with your bother alot? if thats what you mean, then id say she should hang out too, if you havent gotten to kow her than mabey she should take the time. my boyfriends family is VERy large -ALL women, and they talk alot of crap about everyone and including me since weve been daing for 5 years but I make an effort & always will dispite how they get on my nurves to make plans, you kow keep them inluded in our lives, because women who have brothers or sons tend to feel that when he weds, or moves out that hell never come around anymore and cling miore to teh girls family, but its really up to him and her to continue to include his sisters and fam too. Mabey u could talk to him and tell him how important it is for you to feel close to him still even though hes married now. Good luck.

Answer 8

You could spend some quality time with his sister. If she really knows you, it'll be easier.

Also, talk about it.

Answer 9

We included my hubby's little sister in the wedding party (junior bridesmaid), and she and I spent time talking online and emailing back and forth to get to know each other.

Answer 10

make sure you let her have time with him alone too..but also sometimes ask your brother if just you and him can do something together...there should be some times when you and your brother and his wife go hang out together also....