Is virginity before marriage a symbol of close mindedness? Do you consider virgin men inferior beings?
2007-07-09 02:17:01 · 18 answers · asked by Razor 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No, it means that you haven't bought into society's pop cultural definition of who you should be and how you should be. It means you know you nor anyone else is a toy to be played with nor a lab rat to be experimented with whether s/he wants to be or not. It means you don't use yourself or anyone else to satisfy a biological hormonal drive. It means you have taken charge of how and with whom you will express yourself sexually. It means you have integrity and a deep sense of who and what you are and that you value others for who and what they are, primarily spiritual beings. It means no one defines you sexually but you. Male, female no difference.
2007-07-09 02:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by jaicee 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
A person who cares enough about them self and the person they hope to marry some day, is not close minded. I hold them in high regards that they are not willing to lose their virginity to just anyone. That is a gift that can only be given one time! Why not save it for the one you will spend your life with? Some may think that it doesn't matter, but it does. When a person keeps them self clean and pure, their mate has more respect and trust for them. If they have already been with someone else, how do you know that they won't leave you for someone else? And with all the diseases that are sexually transmitted these day, no I definitely don't think either male or female are inferior for keeping their virginity until marriage!
2007-07-09 02:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by Wantstohelp 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps at one time being a virgin was an absolute must, but I think that society has changed the way that we think. I do believe it is still important but most importantly it is what is between two people and what they want and need from each other. Their beliefs and what they want in their marriage and how they would like for it to begin is the most important thing. I would never consider either virgin men or women to be "inferior". That would be an insult to either person regardless, at least in my opinion.
2007-07-11 16:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At my age if a guy is a virgin, then there just might be something wrong . . .lol.
In all sincerity though . . .
No, I don't see virginity as a symbol of close mindedness. I think being a virgin is a choice, and in this day and age probably a very good choice. So if I were a bit younger, out there dating, and searching for "the one". I could appreciate a guys choice to be celibate. He wouldn't just be protecting himself. He'd be protecting me too. =)
2007-07-10 05:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ justbnme ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a male being a virgin is a good thing, to me it means that he knows how special sex is therefore he is waiting to share something so intimate with the person that he is absolutly in love with. Especially since now a days you can never be to sure about other people and with what or where they have been.
Male virgins are definitely not inferior beings, if anything those that choose to wait until marriage are way more superior then those that couldn't or chose not to....
If your still a virgin more power to you!
2007-07-09 02:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by suavi29 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, keeping one's virginity is a sign of self-respect. A lot of people lose it just to lose it, so they aren't picked on or laughed at for being a virgin. It's sad that a lot of people waste their first times on losers, just so they can say they have had sex. I stayed a virgin well into my 20's, and I have no regrets.
2007-07-09 02:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by ♫ kc70 ♫ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No closemindedness has nothing to do with virginity. It is suppossed to be a symbol of purity and faith in God.
Virgin men are not inferior to anyone else.
WTFU
2007-07-09 02:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ali 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 08:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by herbin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so sexist? For me, personally, it goes against my religion. I'm a Christian and I don't want to have sex. Pre-marital sex is the number one reason for teen pregnancies and abortion in the world. And virgin men as inferior beings? No. Actually, I won't date a man unless I know he IS a virgin. I don't want my man to have sex with twenty other women or even ONE.
2007-07-09 04:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's defiantly a sign of self respect and some one knowing their own self worth. There is nothing closed- minded about it. If anything they are closed to allowing them selves to get caught up in the hype about sex and how everyone is doing it. That's a good thing. Treat your self like Gold!!
2007-07-09 02:47:10 · answer #10 · answered by honeyb 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋