For the last 2 years ever since year 9 i have been called fat everyday by my "friend". i know i am not fat cause my other friends tell me im not and i believe that im not fat. at the beginning it was a joke.. and then it started to get to me.. i told my friend (who is a guy) to stop cause what he said hurt me. he stopped for a while then he was mean to me again. early this year i started to develop signs of an eating disorder. i was starving myself and threw up countless times.. i have not been able to look in the mirror for the last 2 years and feel good about how i look. i have told him hat he says hurts and i have even broken down in front of him. i know that he is not a mean person because he is only mean to me. i have recently told my boyfriend and 3 other friends that i have an eating disorder and they are helping me though it. i have imprved my eating , but i hate my old friend for what he has done to me.. i an scared that if i confront him.. people will find out my problem help
2007-07-08 22:29:32 · 9 answers · asked by Hannah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get a new friend. and some therapy. remember terri schaivo that all the conservatives went crazy over?
remember how she was slumped it that chair peeing and pooping all over her self?
Well, she had an eating disorder too, and it caused her to lose vitamins that her heart needed (potassium I think). She had a heart attack and lost oxygen for about 20 minutes.
You want to be sexy? Eat the right food and excercise. Want to be brain dead and sit in a chair pooping your pants and having conservatives fight over your brain dead carcass? Continue making yourself throw up.
There are many men in the world, and you will find one that loves you and thinks your are sexy no matter if you weigh 70lbs or 370lbs.
2007-07-08 23:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please talk to someone about this, your Mum, School Counsellor, anyone you trust.
My youngest daughter had the same thing happen to her and she gave into the eating disorders. I helped her through them as there was not much help back then when she was 16. She is now 33 and may not be able to have a baby. Eating disorders affect us physically as well as psychologically.
And report this 'friend' for bullying, he is not a friend he is a very uncaring, bully who is getting pleasure from your pain. He is out and out cruel for not listening to you when you have asked him to stop calling you 'fat', rude and obnoxious are another description I would give him.
And don't worry about what other people think as in reality it is none of your business. You work on getting back to be a lovely healthy happy young lady and show everyone how you empowered yourself to be you.
In Australia we say "Dob him in he ain't worth a fig".
Be happy with you and everyone else will be too. ",)
2007-07-08 22:44:50 · answer #2 · answered by sag_kat2chat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As someone who has struggled with an easting disorder for the past few years I sympathize with you. I know the pains associated with an eating disorder and the struggles you are experiencing. As previously mentioned, you should never let anyone allow to make you feel so negatively about yourself. Do not keep people like this in your life - they are not worth it. You are very lucky that you have friends who are supporttive.
2007-07-09 00:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa R 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Avoid this person at all costs. He is not your friend. Next time he tries to tell you something, tell him to grow up. Tell him that you thought that he would have matured more than that by now, and walk away. Usually guys that do that to you either like you, or have low self esteem and need to put other people down to feel good. If this happens at school, tell the counselor.
2007-07-08 22:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
particular, I incredibly have an ingesting affliction, and that i easily can no longer tell if i'm skinny or fat anymore (i think fat, and that i glance fat to myself, yet i'm underweight). I incredibly have ED-NOS- in actuality, I incredibly have purging-type Anorexia Nervosa yet specifically situations selection above the required weight and nevertheless get my era via being on beginning administration.
2016-09-29 08:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this lad told you you were a bus or a train or a house, would you believe him? What is his word against your other friends? YOU SHOULD NEVER LET ANYONE DEFINE WHO YOU ARE. You know who you are and that is who you are. Even if you were fat, would you as a young person allow this to make you to be unhappy for the rest of your life?
I wouldn't even be friends with this lad.
2007-07-08 22:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would confront him....and tell him off...it would make u feel a lot better 2
2007-07-08 22:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by lauderdales_finest954 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me
2016-08-21 05:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk 2 him
2007-07-10 09:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋