This man is a good, loving person but, frequently goes into what I call his 'moon cycle' and then he starts missing his ex who were one common u know what. When I confront him, he's sorry about being horrible to me and does not want to lose me but I am getting tired of these moods. I love him to distraction and we have a brilliant home together but he has to change this one thing. Being loving, caring, etc etc does'nt help and fighting about it does'nt either! What can I try next because just getting up and go is quite impossible in this situation. I'll lose too much and living where I do, transport is a problem and almost impossible to get away even if I wanted to. Help I don't know what to do anymore.
2007-07-08
21:57:40
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cozaar
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He is also insecure, scared of being on his own, very sure of what he has in me ie. patience, looking out for him, (giving more than the 50% minimum requirements etc.) What I should've mentioned is that this happens mostly when he starts sulking ie. he thinks he does'nt get enough attention from me. And I have my own life. We live where he works and he works hard and long hours without getting paid what he should get. I have the house, kids, my own design setup, make my own money legally, look after everyone and love them equally. 'Moonman' comes in, eats, has a bath, gets into bed and pushes off in the morning. I don't only feel neglected, I am! Actually the question should've been different. And guess what, she was bad for him and he admits to it. I don't bring the subject up at all, treats his son like my own as well. Should'nt he just try harder without being told anything? He's no baby anymore and if I wanted one, heck, even that would be a prob- no time b cos he's absent
2007-07-08
22:52:00 ·
update #1
He is also insecure, scared of being on his own, very sure of what he has in me ie. patience, looking out for him, (giving more than the 50% minimum requirements etc.) What I should've mentioned is that this happens mostly when he starts sulking ie. he thinks he does'nt get enough attention from me. And I have my own life. We live where he works and he works hard and long hours without getting paid what he should get. I have the house, kids, my own design setup, make my own money legally, look after everyone and love them equally. 'Moonman' comes in, eats, has a bath, gets into bed and pushes off in the morning. I don't only feel neglected, I am! Actually the question should've been different. And guess what, she was bad for him and he admits to it. I don't bring the subject up at all, treats his son like my own as well. Should'nt he just try harder without being told anything? He's no baby anymore and if I wanted one, heck, even that would be a prob- no time b cos he's absent
2007-07-08
22:54:31 ·
update #2