would you choose to remain in a loveless relationship for sake of the kids? or would you believe the kids are better off with one loving parent instead of two unhappy ones?
2007-07-08 21:19:35 · 8 answers · asked by freebird31wizard 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
one happy one
you can make it , kids a re smart and can tell if you are not happy
2007-07-08 21:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by jennyforrich 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well my parents are in one now and have been for the past 43 years. My dad is abusive but my mum has stayed with him for the sake of her children :). I wouldn't want her to part with him anyway because as much as I dislike him, I know that it would be harder with only one parent. It would be hard for the parent who has to work really long hours to earn money for the kids while the kids are at home by themselves worrying where mum/dad is. At least when the kids come home, one parent is there then later, the other one arrives. And don't worry, things will change for the better, trust me and remember that things happen for a reason so stick around and you'll see the reason. You'll be amazed at the results :)
2007-07-09 06:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF the relationship is in the 'too hard basket' - if you both have given up on trying to make it work - give it up.
If he's abusive, violent, a drunk - does drugs etc... get away.
A child needs a loving parent, if there is just one, so be it, the child would be much better off growing up without arguments around them 24/7.
You will be more at peace with yourself also.
2007-07-09 04:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by • Koala • uʍop ɹǝpun 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's better if the loveless relationship ends but the only reason to confine the children to only one parent would be if the other one is abusive or alcoholic or is otherwise unfit to continue being apart of their child's life.
2007-07-09 04:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by neve_freak2001 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no because you will teach your children to stay in a bad relationship. I know you are going through it right now but this is the time to be strong for your kids.
2007-07-09 04:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Darth Maul 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there better off not seeing the fiscal and mantel abuse.
there better off sleeping though the night and not being awaken by screaming and fighting parents.
there better off with one loving parent then to have two ,one that is loving and one that thy fer.
kids feel better when there mom is safe and happy even if thy have to do with out.
good luck g/f you can do it , just plan it right.
2007-07-09 05:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by ღ♥ஐcookie1ஐ♥ღ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when one parent is abusive...a drunk, an unemployed drunk, etc.
oh, to answer your question...better off with one happy parent. Can always spend time at the other parent's house right?
2007-07-09 04:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by [insomniac] 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not at all
2007-07-09 04:22:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋