If you are not a skilled talker,...?

Question

how do you solve things that need intense conversation?

Answer 1

Invite a third party into the mix and have them be a liason.

Answer 2

I think your solution will be specific to your actual problem. But if what is required is intense conversation, then you're going to have to do that.

Most problems can be helped with good listening skills. So, try having your conversation with the person and try these tips:

1. Don't ask why.
2. Ask more open-ended questions than closed.
3. Reflect feeling and content.
4. Say how you feel about it.
5. And of course, keep good eye contact.

If you try being a good listener, it'll help. Don't try to attack people in conversation or be overly defense. Just listen to what they say, understand their point of view and feelings, then you'll have an effective conversation.

Answer 3

You compensate by being a skilled listener. You talk less but straight to the point.

Answer 4

write notes back and forth, some times i feel like i can't verbally tell my hubby things so i sit down next to him with a pen and paper

Answer 5

write down your thoughts on paper as and when they come to you under the topic to be solved. so when the time comes you know what to say.

Answer 6

I'm sure you can get your point across if you really try,as long as you both are speaking the same language

Answer 7

if u know the person well, u can kind of guess what there goin to say, so plan something, and if u dont, have someone u trust with u, and have them with u, and do it on the phone

Answer 8

No I'm better at writing cause I need to think my answers through.

Answer 9

start crying usually works

Answer 10

I start babbling