we've been friends sence we were little and she told me she is bisexsual and i don't know what to do.......
i know i should treat her the same but it is so hard to do.
2007-07-08 21:13:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
That's easy to understand that you may feel uncomfortable. It's just because it is someone that you've known for so long. Tell her how you feel. She should appreciate the fact that you're supportive and you are TRYING not to feel awkward, and you should appreciate the fact she trusted you enough to come out to you.
2007-07-08 21:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you have been friends for so long take it for what it is. She is not trying to come on to you or anything, just trying to let you in a little. Treat her the same don't make her regret doing it.
2007-07-09 04:23:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's still your best friend, but she just happens to be bisexual. She's the same person she always has been, just keep that in mind, and it shouldn't be such a big deal.
2007-07-09 04:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by ☮Witty Sarcasm♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why? Are you that homophobic that you'd actually feel uncomfortable around your bisexual BEST FRIEND...? Big deal... so she's bi. It's not YOUR life, and unless she tells you that she likes you romantically, then NO, she is not hitting on you, and NO, she does not have sexual feelings for you. So relax.
2007-07-09 04:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
well, its probably gunna shock u for a minute but be cool with it and if she does things you don't like(hit on u kiss females in front of u) then tell her or if it doesnt then its all good and tell her exactly how u feel about it and that you'll be there for her
2007-07-09 04:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dre Khan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not treat her as ur friend, nothing has changed she isnt going to take u to bed is she or ask u out or even ask you to join her in her fun games NO, well then just be normal and be her friend and all will not change, its her choice let her have it...
2007-07-09 04:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Robert. B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why treat her different she is still your best friend hun!
2007-07-09 04:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by Norina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were truly her friend it shouldn't matter if she is bi... Why does it matter to you who she is with unless you want her? Be honest with yourself... Grow up and get off your pity party...
2007-07-09 13:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by precious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't hafta DO anything!!!
and if you were TRULY best friends since you were little, it would make NO difference, unless of course you are some sorta FAKE friend. HMPH!!
2007-07-09 04:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by Alias400 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
why hard ... did she harm you ?
you have to be more understanding as she is your best friend.
2007-07-09 07:15:01 · answer #10 · answered by Persian Male 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋