About 4-6 Months Ago I Found Out That My Parents Still Have
Sex. At The Time I Found Out I Was In Awe So I Flipped Out. Now Months Later I Want To Tell My Mom That I Understand That It Is Completly Normal And Natural For Married Couples To Have Sex For Pleasure...Not For Kids. I Want To Tell Her In A Way As If I Was A Friend...Not Her Daughter.
Any Help Or Opinions Would Help!
Thank You!
2007-07-08 20:46:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By The Way
I'm Not A Kid
I Just Don't Know How To Express It To Her!
2007-07-08 20:55:27 · update #1
yup, you're right trying to tell her as if you're her friend might be the best idea
2007-07-08 20:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Chinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I"m not sure why you would flip out because your parents are having sex. Regardless of whether they are 20 or 100, if they are haivng a healthy sex life, that is their business, not the neighbors, not their kids...just theirs. Be happy that they are having a healthy sex life.....orgasms are good for the blood flow.....let them live healthy and pleasurized!
Honestly, instead of approaching your mother and letting her know you understand, I would make a joke one day and say, "I heard that having sex is good for the heart" and then give her a wink.....leave it at that! Maybe say it as you're walking out the door, that way it doesn't have to go any further.
2007-07-08 20:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by rakkabye girl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you need to say anything! Most mature people understand that people including parents, married couples and yes, even grandparents still have sex and so I would think that your mother would already expect you to have this understanding. It's shouldn't really be a new revelation that needs discussion & understanding - it's just a well known fact of life :)
2007-07-08 21:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by mmasseychase 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol oh dear! I was glad to know my parents still brushed away the cobwebs with a bit of slap and tickle.
Just be casual about it and tell Mom you're sorry and that it's cool.
Trying to make yourself sound like a friend does not work as the approach is totally different.
2007-07-08 21:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to you, mind your own business. can you imagine how your mother will feel if her own daughter tells her it is a normal thing for them to be having sex. You say your an adult, you certainly don't sound it. what gave you the idea that sex was for only making babies, and what made you think that parents don't have sex because they are older. I strongly suggest you go to some sex education classes, and learn. Also for your information even grandparents still enjoy making love. you seem well ill informed.
2007-07-08 21:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, your reaction was normal for a child. Your mother knows that and she also knows that you'll realize that sex is good. Not for kids? Nah, but it's okay for teenagers and married couples alike. You don't need to talk about it with her. Just like when you start having sex, you don't need to tell her. It's none of her business!
2007-07-08 20:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say I know why I flipped out back then and now have a better understanding and I am sorry I flipped out
2007-07-08 21:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, as close as I was to my mother, I would have no REASON to tell her anything of the sort!
YOU are the CHILD, and she does not need your
approval or support.
Be happy for her in your heart.
Many mothers do not have this joy in their lives.
I would find it rather disrespectful if I thought my daughter was "listening" to my private time with my husband.
Be wise, you will not be able to take back anything once you say it, and you don't want her to be uncomfortable in her own home, Would you?
2007-07-08 22:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to say actually. It is part of family life. If you happen to know that they are having sex again, go to your room and bring up the volume of your radio. It will help.
2007-07-08 21:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want mature answers and yet you ask an infitile question? Your parents don't NEED your permission to have sex for whatever reason, so you don't NEED to tell your mother anything.
2007-07-08 21:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there ......so you discovered that they still have sex ......you do not need to say anything to youre mum ,except that you and dad have a cool relationship and walk out the room and that will be enough for youre mum to get what youre saying ,it is a natural thing that youre parents have and keeping there relationship alive and kicking ........good for them .....take carexx
2007-07-08 21:46:06 · answer #11 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋