well i love this guy im marring but i really love my middle school sweet heart and i do have 2 kids and i have told my sweet heart that but i dont know how to tell my lover!
HELP!
2007-07-08 19:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by Jasmine 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't love him, sit down, and explain this to him. Theres no reason for you to be unhappy, and don't stay together because of the kids, this could be worse on them in the long run, than if you went your seperate ways.
2007-07-08 19:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by dwh91102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Summer you have so many issues going your divorcing, he was supposedly divorcing you both have kids his WIFE is in a wheel chair. Do you see anything wrong here? You may think you love this guy but chances are he is a diversion from all your problems. You have so many doors open why don't you slow down, take some control of your life and close some of the open doors. His wife is handicapped while that is not your problem, you need to have a heart and consider how you would feel if the situations were reversed. You need to back off cause he is married and the two of you are committing adultery.
2016-05-17 09:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by henrietta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont get married to his guy call you "sweet heart" n tell him how u love him or w/e
2007-07-08 19:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be sorry if your getting married and dont love him. Marriage is hard enough with love - your starting off on the wrong foot
2007-07-08 19:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make what could be the biggest mistake of your life . If you feel this way it would not benefit you to get married and mess up the lives of 4 ppl . please re consider your decision . get some counseling and then maybe figure it out and then get married. good luck to you .
2007-07-09 02:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for 9 yrs, sometimes very happy other times mad and other times unhappy. i always think about my high school sweetheart. i loved him with all my heart and sometimes wish i can see him again, but then i thank god for what i have and continue with my life. people say love if everything in life. honey, its not. think about your children, where will they be better off?
2007-07-08 19:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by LUISA S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you know what you are even doing?The guy wants to marry you,you need to stop and think,like ,...why are you in this mess?Does your old sweetheart even want you?What will this all do to your kids?As a parent,just remember what we do affects our kids,marriage is a commitment.Please,just be honest with yourself,the answer will come to you.
2007-07-08 19:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by t_blond_chick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T MARRY SOMEONE YOU DON'T LOVE!! That is no way to start a relationship.It's not fair to the poor guy you are marrying.
2007-07-08 20:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by thepeacelover01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married. It will only end in heartache if you are feeling this way now.
2007-07-08 19:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by RunsWithKnife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to not get married if you have no love for the person, you will only have regrets later...
2007-07-11 18:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋