I've heard that if you imagine yourself bolting if you had the means, that you should leave even without the means and live a happy (albeit maybe poorer) life. What do you think?
2007-07-08 19:05:44 · 54 answers · asked by SQD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i would definitely stay with my husband, i can't imagine sharing my money with anyone else!
2007-07-08 19:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has, at some time, imagined what they would do if they won the lottery, I know I have. I have had some great thoughts about what I would do, but quite honestly, all my plans have always included my husband. If I was unhappy in my marriage, I would leave, regardless of whether I had money or not. When I left my first husband, I had only my clothes, and no job. It was a battle to make a new start, with nothing, no car, no job, but I managed, and if necessary, would do it again.Having all that money would certainly make my life a whole lot easier, but without my husband in it, it would definitely not be as happy.
2007-07-08 19:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the right life partner and you are a million Arie already.No I wouldn't bolt anywhere.I would love to do any thing we wanted to do.We have been poor and we lived Thur it.and still together.If you are lucky to get the right one.you are truly 1/2 of a whole.We finish each others seances.we both get hungry for the same things.We even come out to go some where with the same colors on.Would I stay.Like a mother-in-law with bad breath.
2007-07-15 09:08:04 · answer #3 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was committed in a relationship or married that means I would want to be with that person for richer or for poorer and through the good and bad. If I contemplate about leaving my significant other just because I got rich, then I wouldn't be with that person in the first place.
2007-07-08 19:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by single_n_hopeful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money would not make me stay or leave. My marriage is not OK check out my question. If I had a lot of money it would make it no easier to leave. My emotions make me stay it is not that easy. I have a difficult time letting go of people I love or even have loved. I wish I could just say hell with it I'm out of here. There is family and time and so many things.
2007-07-16 18:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by CRS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, since money, or lack of it is the bonding factor. How about this...? I'm content to work hard and keep opening businesses and my boyfriend keeps playing the lottery. If he wins, I'd leave. Why? Because it would give us 100 problems that we don't have now. I'd rather have 1 problem than 100.
2007-07-08 19:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if your unhappy and you rather live a less expensive life but be happier to have peace and quiet or how ever this person treated you then it would be worth it. For some folks they dont' care they take the money over love any day.
but if you loved the person why not share it with them and you could have so much fun together doing and seeing new things. its much better to share with someone you love.
2007-07-08 19:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We've discussed the Lottery consequenses. In win below $100 Million she gives me 10%. $100 Million and upwards is enough to raise my share to 50%. In either case the wife
wants to aquire central south property in UK and USA. I'm partial to rivers and canal boat lifestlye. I guess we could share a couple docks and moor each other.
2007-07-15 15:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now i am going through a divorce but if I had the chance of working things out with my husband and I won the lotto I would stay with him. A few weeks ago a life coach asked me that question and I answered her by saying I am so stupid but eventhough everything he has put me through I would stay with him, and she said I'm not stupid its just that you truly love him unconditionally.
2007-07-16 15:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by beba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh yes. We would still live as we do now and work until retirement. Maybe get jobs on a less financial basis more fun! Just having more security for retirement, kids college, and travelling would be awesome.
2007-07-15 16:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live with someone you wouldn't share with then do them afavor and get out. They can do better than somoene who doesn't love them enough to even want to see them happy. Even if I were in that position and I wanted out I would split 50/50 before I left.
I LOVE my partner and even if I fell out of love, I couldn't want anything but his happiness. No amount of money could ease my conscience if i did that
2007-07-15 21:29:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋