Libras like to have harmony in relationships. Sometimes, wanting to be sure everyone is happy with a choice, makes one option at a particular moment, just fine for them to go along with, This is especially true when one person or a majority in the group knows what they want.
At some point, a Libra does know what they want to experience. It takes some maturity - or life experiences - for them to learn how to speak up and say what their preference is.
So, a good practice for a friend of a Libra is to ask them what they do or do not like. Do this long before a situation occurs where the Libra needs to make a choice. IF in a group, watch to see if the Libra goes along with the flow or can speak up with their preference.
Some Libras have already made a decision, but are interested in knowing how their friends preferences are. So, watch to see if they ask others for input, yet then the Libra goes ahead with some alternative choice not spoken about.
Trust this assists your Libra friendship.
Maluhia - Peace
2007-07-08 23:11:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Kinda hard. I'm a Libra, and even I can't stand my own indecisiveness. I've been indecisive before I even knew it was a Libra trait. But first off, Libras are Air Signs. We're going to side with an intellectual case over an emotional one. So if they are having trouble making a decision, you make it and using logic, show them how you are right. Most will see things your way. And yeah, don't feel like you're pressuring them. We hate that!!!! Let them know they are still free to make decisions themselves and just guide them in a certain direction. Also, make a decision and tell Libra how happy it'll make you if that choice is what's made. We love making other people happy!!!! So we'll probably go with you on this one! Good luck!
2007-07-08 21:01:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Actually, I don't believe indecisiveness is a trait of the Libra. Not that it's not in their nature. You may just be dealing with someone who has never had to decide anything, or someone who is tired of deciding everything all the time.
2007-07-08 17:59:09
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answered by Shon 3
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I have 2 libra friends and yes, they know it's hard for them to decide because they see the both sides of everything. To deal with their indecisiveness, they just let me help them decide. Just convince them which point is better and they'll go along with you.
2007-07-08 18:17:52
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answered by mighty spy 4
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Libra's aren't indecisive, or are we? I can't decide.
Problem is, we see both sides of most issues, so, if you can present a strong enough argument for an issue, we will see your point, or not!
2007-07-08 18:08:04
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answered by surffsav 5
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Yeah, it's a trait of everyone who was born in that time period. Has nothing to do with who their parents were, genes, or anything else. Seriously, how stupid are horoscopes?
2007-07-08 19:34:09
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answered by SW1 6
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I can't deal with that myself *ugh*.
That's why my last relationship failed.
He couldn't make up his damn mind.
I'd like to know the answer to this question as well.
2007-07-08 19:51:31
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answered by Anonymous
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They should be alloted enough time to come to a desicion. Don't pressure or rush them, or they'll retreat.
2007-07-08 19:51:27
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answered by Anonymous
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leave him alone.
2007-07-12 12:08:43
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answered by Anonymous
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