2007-07-08 17:44:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
THIS IS A GOOD QUESTION; I AM DEFINITELY THE DOMINATE ONE WHEN IT COMES TO SEX IN MY DAY TO DAY LIFE I USUALLY AM VERY HUMBLE AND EASY GOING. IN MY RELATIONSHIP I AM SUBMISSIVE TO MY MAN EXCEPT WHEN IT COMES TO SEX. I LIKE TO BE THE DOMINATE ONE. IT FEELS GOOD TO HAVE THAT POWER OVER A MAN. ALSO I LOVE TO BE ON TOP AND IN CONTROL. ITS MY OWN NATURAL HIGH. I HATE TO BE SUBMISSIVE BECAUSE IT FEEL S OVERBEARING AND I JUST CAN NOT BE SATISFIED. ITS THE POWER RUSH OF LOOKING IN HIS FACE AND KNOWING THAT THAT THE PLEASURE ON HIS FACE IS CAUSED BY ME.
2007-07-09 11:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a part of nature. Every animal species has a chain of dominance in their order. Some species, the female is more dominant than the male. I guess I am a little bit of both. I am usually submissive to my partner's desires and wants. But can be dominant at times although it is not in my "love" nature. I really believe that I am submissive often in my personal life because I am so dominant in my professional life. I own a production and promotions company. At times, I have to be in charge of 100 plus people carrying out various tasks. When I do a production or a promotion, I have final say on everything. So it is good to be able to be submissive in my personal life and let my boyfriend make the decisions. Although I will say that my being submissive is a choice and often I have to just keep my mouth shut to be that way.
2007-07-09 06:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by tjmuvimakr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is by their nature. The submissiveness of part of their nature. I am also a type of submissive person as far as the expression are concerned. And we really go to sex then I am dominant because of unlimited blessing of God for never ending strength. Really my partners tired by I am still same like start enjoying. As far as what way? that is self control and adoption of techniques to improve the time, difference poses etc.
2007-07-09 00:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm both, in that I will initiate or follow along. Also I like both dominate and submissive positions. Someone like me needs someone like me in order to keep things interesting. Submissivity has it's place, but it's not good to be that way all the time. It's boring.
2007-07-09 00:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by Shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm both in different situations.
I was raised as a guy, and it always confused me....I think girls were turned off by the fact I didn't know how to "take charge" and I just couldn't take the pressure of being the "dominant male".
After I accepted myself as trans, I found I had a much more fluid sense of my sexuality; I love being submissive and tender with a guy, feeling safe in his arms..all of that.
I also found that now I was finally being who I was, I felt more powerful, and sometimes I liked taking the lead...I also made friends in the BDSM community and discovered that I like spanking people as much as i like being spanked...
Enough info?
2007-07-09 02:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Divadarya: trans n' proud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to answer the first part of the question, can you imagine the state of the world if everyone was just dominant or just submissive?! no one would be able to get anything done (in all respects, not just sex) cause people would either spend all the time bickering over who takes control or they'd be too afraid (for lack of a better word.. no offence meant) to initiate anything!
2007-07-09 01:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by meeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it as yin and yang. Submissives are gentler, more subtle. They maintain balance and order. Dom's are more brash, stronger. They cause change. Each needs the other in order to be happy. Someone with a lot of yin needs someone with a lot of yang. But most people are somewhere in the middle, and so they too desire someone in the middle.
I'm naturally dominant over about 98% of women and about 80% of men. I have a very, very strong personality. I am this way in business, sex, and in my general interactions.
I think I just was born this way. Just like I was born white, bisexual, or female.
People are kind of frightened of alpha females like me. It seems to be a somewhat uncommon breed.
2007-07-09 01:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
People wether gay or straight can be submissive or dominant.Use your imagination. I prefer to be dominant because it is more about control of the particular situation and I like to lead the act because I have a very vivid and spontaneuos imagination.
2007-07-09 00:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by karayzeebutieful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just what is in you. SOme like to take the lead all the time, some like to give up control...Some like to switch.
I am more submissive becasue that is what i like..i like to be controled and give up my control. It's what cranks my crank!
2007-07-09 00:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by sticky J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's related to a person's personality traits. Me; both, STRICTLY hetero, gentle, respectful, kind of demanding but, in a nice way, and eager to please. Answer Your Question?
2007-07-09 00:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋