I'm not that much of a germa-phobe, but that dog's mouth has been everywhere.. and before you say dogs mouths are cleaner than ours.. No they are not.. New research has debunked that myth..
This particular dog licks his butt.. and tries to pick fleas from his fur.. How can that be cleaner than us!?
Anyhow, how can I be nice but still tell them to keep their little dirty dog AWAY from my baby..
2007-07-08 15:07:26 · 22 answers · asked by LOVE 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
It's usually when we go to their house... This little doggy is everywhere!!
2007-07-08 15:14:31 · update #1
For those who keep asking if my baby was on the dogs level.. This happened on the sofa..
The dog annoyingly jumps on the sofa and starts licking everyone..
2007-07-08 15:23:43 · update #2
My sister has a miniature schnautzer (is that how you spell it?) well anyways I also don't believe that dogs mouth's are cleaners than ours and I didn't like that the dog would lick my baby's face and hands. I would just say really loud when my sister was around so she could see "No no...no licking the baby" in a nice tone so that my sister wouldn't think I was mad or anything and I would just pull the dog away from her. That gave my sister the point across that I didn't like her dog licking my baby and so then she would say that same when she noticed her dog licking her. She wasn't at all offended and now that both my baby and her dog are older, she knows she's not allowed to lick her and she doesn't do it at all anymore.
2007-07-08 15:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ruth G 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell them that you're uncomfortable with having the dog around the baby at this time. Let them know that you don't dislike the dog, but that it's been bothering you.
Most people will be understanding of this. You don't necessarily have to give them a specific reason, as you don't want to start any kind of conflict of opinion.
You can also invite them over instead: This way the dog doesn't interfere or come in contact with the baby.
If they don't respect what you ask, then you may want to consider not going over there right now.
Hope this helps!
2007-07-08 15:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by mroof! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the dog!! This might sound dumb but wait until the owners are in the room at the same time as the dog and when the dog goes to lick the baby say "No, naughty dog, dont lick" in a firm but nice voice. The owners hopefully will respond on behalf of the dog by also saying "no" and moving the dog.
2007-07-08 15:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by kiwichickie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand where you are coming from. I feel the same way you do about dogs being near babies. If they are really your friends they will understand how you are feeling if you tell them that you do not want their dog near the baby. Possibly politely ask them if they could put the dog in the other room while you visit or if its your friends you can make it like your husband prefers the dog not licking the baby ( bad , I know to place the blame but I know its hard) . If it really gets to be a challenge then just have them visit your house instead. Wish you luck!!!
2007-07-08 15:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by cheryl c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just flat out tell them that it makes you uncomfortable for the dog to lick your baby. That you like the dog but it isn't the healthiest thing for a baby. Most people will respect that. If they are your friends, they will. It will only be a minute or 2 of akwardness and then you can feel better knowing your baby will be safe and healthy.
2007-07-08 15:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by RoxyGirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them not to let the dog lick your baby. If you keep the baby off the floor, this should not be a problem. You could ask them to put the dog in another room when you are visiting, but this could cause trouble in your friendship. Some people think of their dogs as their babies.
2007-07-08 15:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just make a joke about it,tell your friend u don't lick the dog so the dog shouldn't lick the baby. Besides your friend should understand that the dirty lil dog that licks his penis and his bum is freaking gross and that saliva should be no where near a baby. Don't get me wrong, I Luv dogs but I also luv my one year old and ewww...that's gross. I have 2 dogs and they are NEVER allowed 2 lick the baby.
2007-07-08 16:44:48 · answer #7 · answered by Doll D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep telling the dog to get down. or tell them im not trying to be rude id just prefer is your dog isnt licking my child and if they seem like oh well this is my house, then maybe invite them to your house instead that way the dog is at home
2007-07-08 15:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by megleg88 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My own dog does this (little chihuahua) and I just yell "EWW, gross, Taco NO!" And I shoo her away.
You could always do this, and then look up at your friends/dog's owners and say, "Did you see that! Oh, yuck! I wish he wouldn't do that!"
And just on a side note... My dog got very jealous and poo'd on the floor where I couldn't see it, next to the couch and under the skirt of the lamp table... Well, my son DID see it and I needn't elaborate on what happened next, but let me assure you, he wasn't sick from it, even though I was [omg I feel gross just remembering that].
So I know it grosses you out, but I'm betting he won't die from it. I still wouldn't let their dog lick on your baby either though. Just don't lose sleep over what's already happened, you know?
2007-07-08 17:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about being polite. This is your baby and if someone can't understand that a dog shouldnt be licking on a baby's face then that's their problem. Just say, look, I love your dog, but will ya lock him up while I am at your house with my baby?
If they are unwilling to control their dog while you are at their house, then quit going to their house with the baby. Risking the health of your baby is not worth trying to be polite to a friend.
2007-07-08 15:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋