Is real love not going out with other girls because you dont want to hurt the girl you´re already with?
....or is real love not even wanting to go out with other girls, simply because you only care about and are interested in the one you´re with right now?
2007-07-08 14:49:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jaded 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Real love has nothing to do with the options presented by other people. Real love is about respecting and valuing and caring for the person you are with. Real love is in the sharing of hopes and dreams and ideas. Real love is in the mutual imagination that we find with our partner. It is about knowing who you are and respecting yourself and your partner... making a conscious choice to be with that person as wholly as possible. That's my thought, anyhow.
2007-07-08 19:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mikisew 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in the way that you have posed your question you sound young, which is by no means an insult, and your question is a good one.
In the way you have asked, I'm going to have to go with choice number one, because it is natural to be attracted to and even feel desirous of other women. Making the conscious choice not to act on those feelings is committing to a monogamous / exclusive relationship; which is traditionally seen as something we do for someone we "love".
2007-07-08 22:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by mchlmybelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Closer to #1 than #2.
If you really love someone, you don't deliberately do things that would hurt them. That doesn't mean that you have no interest in anything other than that person, but that the person means enough to you that you wouldn't want to do anything to hurt her. You don't want to go out with others, but it isn't because you find them uninteresting or unattractive. They might even be friends of yours that you care about or are interested in, but you would never go out with any of them because you love the one you're with now.
2007-07-08 22:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by Dragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real love is having no desire to be with or think about anyone else because the center of your universe and thoughts is the one you love.
2007-07-08 21:54:06 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Real love is losing sight of the fact that other girls exist.
2007-07-08 21:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think real love means that you don't think "just think" about another girl because you "just" see and "just" think about the girl you' re already with.
when one of us feel that, he surely can say, it is real love.
2007-07-09 13:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mag 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#2
2007-07-08 21:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by sugar_lumpkin84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easily number 2
2007-07-09 00:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by NoLongerHere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
real love is love my friend!!
2007-07-08 21:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Kiui 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋