had a lover of the same sex before you knew each other?
2007-07-08 14:48:55 · 32 answers · asked by A A 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'd be shocked but hey ... that was then this is now.
2007-07-08 14:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably be upset that he wasn't able to tell me before we got marriage. I would wonder what in our relationship made him feel so insecure and untrusting to tell me. I wouldn't care because we are young and it could have very well have been just in experiment. I would be definitely be more dissapointed that he didn't tell me then about the fact that he was with another man.
2007-07-08 14:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Steven's Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lover or just a sex partner? If it was just sex, that's one thing, but if there was love then that's something else.
2007-07-08 14:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by steve.c_50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEHE. Well, my fiance' dated a girl who liked girls before him, so I kinda know what you're going through.
He was shocked, but he found out after they broke up. If he promises that it was in the past, then let it be.
Don't let past problems get in the way of your present love. Just don't let it bother you and DEFINATELY don't bring it back up.
I he's with you and no one else, then just enjoy it while you have it.
Good luck. :)
2007-07-08 14:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by whynotme_ldh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely make sure she was sure I am what she wants before someone gets hurt somewhere down the line.
2007-07-08 14:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Chico Escuela aka Rob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very surprised. I think we could talk it out once I got over the shock!
2007-07-08 14:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably would not set too well with me. I guess I could forgive but it would probably change the way I see him from then on.
2007-07-08 14:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be shocked for about 15 seconds, then just move on.
2007-07-08 15:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lt. Shinysides 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be extremely scared of my mate, because I'm 13 and all of my friends are as well. sick and wrong! (at least at this age...to date, not to be gay)
2007-07-08 14:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Gabbie ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very suprised.. I would stay with him but I couldnt look at him the same...
2007-07-08 14:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by brooke,<3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough question, but I would stay because I love him.
2007-07-08 14:53:06 · answer #11 · answered by My Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋