One of my inner vaginal lips is alot larger than the other so Im very self concious to have sex. I'm still a virgin (I'm fairly young) and terrified for my "first time" because of this. What can I do? :(
2007-07-08 14:40:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
But it looks so noticeable...
2007-07-08 14:53:31 · update #1
umm....i can only say that most guys wont spend that much time comparing you vaginal lips or even lookin at all. You probably just think that it's so noticable when it's probably not, but if you're still so young you shouldn't even be worried about sex, just wait
2007-07-08 14:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy loves you it won't matter to him, he's just happy that he's getting some and hopefully pleasing you.
Since your young and it is your first time and all, you might want to think about more important thing like protection and birth control. And you wanna drink alot of water, cuz that prevents you from releasing too much liquid, he may like it but you might feel uncomfortable.
2007-07-12 14:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by % 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was very self conscious at that age too :-P It's because all those years you had a little girls vagina and then you hit puberty and it's like bam, not only is it hairy but it's big, ugly, and ooozing fluids, LOL. You get used to it though, and guys don't seem to mind. When you get there you'll see one of their things hangs lower too.
2007-07-08 22:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, almost all women are asymmetrical down there.
I'm in the same boat as you and i have NEVER had a guy say anything about it.
Don't worry about it, odds are they aren't going to study your vagina close up for imperfections.
Have fun and be safe!
2007-07-08 21:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
its normal. i'm in the same boat. i think almost everyone is too. and if a guy has an issue w/ that then he is just an idiot to begin with. relax! it'll be okay :]
just make sure u dont jump into anything too fast w/ a random guy. and definitely dont rush your first time. be careful!
2007-07-08 22:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by MSU 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're still young so you may not be all done yet - it may get better...but I've never heard any man complain about such a thing...he's just happy to be down there!
2007-07-12 21:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Pineapple Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, as a male thats had multiple partners, none of you women have looked the same down there, and i guarantee you that it wont matter.
2007-07-08 21:45:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex til your grown once your body is full grown it will look fine and by the way guys could careless what it looks like
2007-07-08 21:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would tell you to wait until you're married just to be on the safe side
but you dont have to worry about it all gurls are different!
2007-07-08 22:20:42 · answer #9 · answered by je$$ic@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think any guys care?????
2007-07-08 22:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋