Spent time w/ a guy that told me I am his high school dream girl. Hung out every weekend for like 3 weeks as friends. Sent emails, text messages etc everyday and then we were supposed to hang out, but because of the divorce I felt it was in my best interest to go home to my husband. My friend emailed him to let him know that I am going through some stuff and to give me space. Since that moment everything changed. How can you go from one extreme to the next in a matter of a day? Is he not interested? Is he too interested he doesn't want to get involved? Do morals play a role? WTF
2007-07-08 11:08:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would think he didn't want to get involved in the divorce and wasn't sure if you would leave your husband for good. Do you blame him? He didn't want to fall for a woman who might not be available to him. If he thought there was a chance he might of hung around, but personally if I was seeing someone going through a divorce and they decided to go back to their wife I would be scared and not want any part of it. No one likes to get hurt.
2007-07-08 11:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Um, HELLO, your friend e-mailed him asking for him to give you some space. I assume you agreed to this e-mail. Are you changing your mind and regretting it? I don't mean to sound harsh but you need to deal with your own relationships, bringing your friend into the matter was very insulting whether you realize it or not. It says to the guy "I've had to ask my friend to get involved because you're that much of a hassle to me". Next time tell him yourself. you need to own up to the fact that you were the one in the wrong here and not him. You shouldn't feel badly, that's really not the intent of the e-mail, but I think you need to be aware that you were lucky a guy was even willing to spend that much time with you as a potential dater considering the fact that you are going through a divorce. He was sort of doing you a favor by ignoring the fact that you were still officially married, and you had your friend shun him so I don't understand why you're surprised he's not calling you back! Sorry I just don't see your point of view at all. I say apologize to him and tell him you'll never have your friend get in the way or your relationship again and mean it and follow through with this promise.
2007-07-08 11:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by SugarFrog46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it either, but I don't dance at all at shows anyways. I pretty much just stand and watch. For me the show is all about soaking in the sounds and what the band is doing. I'm by no means saying that there is a right or a wrong, that's just how I do it. Pits though or moreso the moshing mentality, for me, can be terribly annoying. I've been to shows, wanting to hang out and watch the group and even being towards the back of a small venue being crashed into by some jerk who is "feeling it." I don't think that it's always wrong or anything. Do what you want to do and enjoy your show experience the way it's best for you. My problem is when there is a sort of pitted area (or it isn't really a slamming audience) and people extend the mentality out to where it isn't going on. I intentionally separate myself from the pits and expect a degree of courtesy from other people at shows. I really hate it when some overzealous jerk feels like he has the right to elbow me in the gut, or rush straight into me simply because we're both at the same show. It hasn't happened in a long time because I've just sort of started to gravitate to mellower shows as I've gotten older but it really used to bug me. I guess that isn't really an answer, but more so the question sparked a rant for me so thanks for endulging me. I don't really get it either.
2016-04-01 03:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is WTF are you trying to ask? It does not make any sense at all, are you married, and you cheated on your husband? Is he married and you were the side line ho*? My advice to you, look at yourself in the mirror, and ask yourself, what are your morals, that should give you the answer you want.
2007-07-08 11:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i was talking about the boy i like....i got his number from my friend and she got it from her brother...the first time i called was at a party of the weekend when i saw him on monday he start smiling at me right when i walked in the class
2007-07-08 11:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by Maddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋