today at the end of the work day when there were only about 4 of us left (all male and 20 years my senior excpet one about 10) i had my period 2day and i was aware a disaster was about to happen and right i was! i checked my skirt n found a very ugly stain!! but i caught my skirt in my hand like when u do when its too long and just collected my stuff and left!! i dont think anyone noticed but wat if it was there before i checked? im contemplating suicide. should i die of embaressment??
2007-07-08 10:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
It is a natural function and nothing to be ashamed of. ~
2007-07-08 12:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God no ... it's not that big of a deal. If anyone brings it up (and if they do, they have no class) say "Yeah I noticed that when I got home. I must have sat in something. I had to take my skirt to the drycleaners. I'm praying they can get it out because I don't even know what it IS!". It's all about confidence and how you just play it off. :-)
2007-07-08 17:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Jackie O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pardon me, but you sound relatively young (mid 20's or less). A menstral leak really does happen to ALL of us at one point or another. If these men are 10 to 20 years older than you then chances are they have (or had) at lease one wife (or at least had some girlfriends) that experienced something similar. Not all men are naive to menstration issues.
2007-07-08 19:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men would be polite enough to ignore it and/or censure any man that openly made light of it. Been around long enough to see a few 'accidents' and you can believe me when I say you get more sympathy than anything else.
There are a few morons around that think its funny. Male virgins usually
The one thing you wont be forgiven for is poor hygiene and body Oder.
2007-07-08 18:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are so unfamiliar with periods that even if it was noticed, they would either assume that it must just be something that happens from time to time to a girl or at the least they would know that it is a touchy subject for women and would just forget about it. Don't let it get to you because i can only assume that this happens to lots of women - and so would they.
2007-07-08 18:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by ibleedindie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To die over a natural body function would be more embarrassing. Accidents will happen,all we can do is learn from them.
2007-07-08 22:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Impact 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide as in like die? just because of a period? i dont think so. some day you'll look back at it and laugh at yourself. they call it experience, and they say its the best teacher....chances are they didnt notice, and if they did they were kind enough not to mention it. if you do something about it, like die, then you will give them something to really talk about.
tell you my experince? i remember in high school, exams had just started and i had a paper to write. i went to the exam room and took my place. i felt kinda funny but ignored, wrote the paper, finished and walked out and went to stand by the door to wait for my peeps. people passed and looked at me kinda funny, but i ignored again....till one guy walked up to me and told me "hey Darlene, your uniform is mess at the back." i felt like dying, just like you did. i had to walk to the bathrooms to clean up my "mess", and whats worse, the pavement i had to use was right in front of all the other classes.....yeah, i felt like dying of embarassment. and now i look back and think "if i had actually died, i would have given them something to really talk about"
just wave it off as one of them things that happens. after all, we need someof these bad moments to really appreciate the good ones, right?
2007-07-08 18:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Dar' Lene Princess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋