Men - If you love your wife/girfriend...?

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Men - If you love your wife/girfriend...?

Is it difficult for you to stay focused (just) on your wife!

Not complaining for me - I'M SINGLE! and don't want you! married man!

Sorry to shout - just interested to hear any honest opinions!

2007-07-08 10:50:58 · 27 answers · asked by *~☺~* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce

Lovely answers - restored my faith in REAL men...Thank you for answering!

Congratulations on finding your (true) loves!

2007-07-08 10:56:18 · update #1

Dylan - Not all women are money grabbing witches!

2007-07-08 10:58:35 · update #2

Anishinabe - Like i said was not my problem!

Just annoyed with one particular guy (letch) i met today at a christening..yes..even at a christening!!

I was annoyed for his wife..a lovely person! who does not deserve that treatment!...and i had to shut him up!

Personally, if i ever had that treament i would DUMP him!

2007-07-08 11:04:58 · update #3

Rabbit man...awghhhh..best wishes to you both!

2007-07-08 11:07:56 · update #4

Pinkysmygirlfriend - Maybe you could help! Honest answer! Good luck love!

...20 years! I admire that!

2007-07-08 11:11:30 · update #5

PraiseBob - you misunderstood question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you read on...THIS LETCH I MET TODAY.....WAS AN ANIMAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-07-08 11:15:58 · update #6

PraiseBob - congratulations (16) years!

2007-07-08 11:18:31 · update #7

Maria...Lucky girl!...EEEENNNNJOY!!! LOL : )

2007-07-08 11:21:27 · update #8

Suzy c - thank you...Nice to see genuine aswers from men!

To be fair to.. 'most' men..when in a relationship, they have the same desires as us women.. to be 'truly' loved and respected!

2007-07-08 11:38:03 · update #9

Lonewolf......awwwwwghhhhhhhhhh!

Better than reading mills & boon this! LOL : )

2007-07-08 11:40:36 · update #10

Cap-de-monty...av u got yr cap ready??

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In brief: Thanks for the laugh! You Funny BoyD?!! LOL
Best wishes to you and your wife!

2007-07-08 12:40:16 · update #11

2007-07-08 12:43:12 · update #12

Sorry to repeat that ...problem with details page ..Not printed all of my lousy joke! LOL B######### & D missing! sorrrrry! don't worry.. i'm off! Bye!!

2007-07-08 12:48:21 · update #13

27 answers

Nope I love her with all my heart and soul

2007-07-08 10:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dragonskeeper 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋

Depends what you mean by focused???

I've been with my wife for about 14 years and love her to pieces. Yeah, you have your ups and downs but I wouldn't change anything for the world.

The thing with marriage is you don't get a chip put in your head that stops you finding people of the opposite sex attractive. If I see an attractive lady I'll still turn my head, that hasn't changed, but the only rule is you can't pursue things anymore. I'm sure she still turns her head if she goes past a building site and the lads are out with no shirts on. Again, only natural and nothing I'd ever have a problem with.

I can watch telly and see a girl on there and tell her how attractive she is, she can do the same with fellas and me. No problem.

Looking at women, and maybe the occasional flirt with a barmaid/barman (barmaid in my case, barman in hers) I don't see as a problem either, as long as it goes no further.

When you play the game of marriage.......... You've gotta know the rules!

2007-07-08 10:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

Being a man, I'm tempted to look at other women, but I married my wife because I love her, and she's the only woman I need. I love her so much and so focused on her, that I don't need porn or anything else that would take my attention away from her.

2007-07-08 11:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Newsflash: Getting married does not cause instant death nor does it turn one into a soulless zombie.

You have some pretty strange ideas about the nature of a healthy marriage/relationship. Just because man engages in basic human activities like looking and/or flirting does not mean that they do not love their wives or are not committed to their marriage.

And, for what it's worth, it sounds to me like you need to get over yourself.

-- PS --

Forgot to mention that I have been very happily married for 16 years.

2007-07-08 10:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

I asked my hubby and he said " You are the most beautiful, sexy, funny, intelligent person that i've ever met, you challenge me,inspire me and make my world complete. No one else even comes close,the pedestal you sit on i can't even see from this mortal plain."
Am i the luckiest woman ever, he's such a sweetheart and tonight he's going to be a very lucky man lol

2007-07-08 11:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

Not difficult at all. I dated the woman who is my wife for four years (she's my high school sweetheart). We've been married for jusy under 15 years now, and I love her more today than I did when we first got together.

Odie

2007-07-08 15:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by Odie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋

I see you have had many answers, but I've been married for almost 14 years and I love my wife. And I'm a horn dog, but I would never cheat and I love my wife. Did I mention that?

2007-07-08 11:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋

yeah , I love her

kind of boring after 20 years to be quite honest

also, I only had one other girlfriend in a sexual relationship, not counting a few shorter things

so, I'm very curious about other girls and what they might be like to be with, especially when I'm not gettin any

2007-07-08 10:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

Sorry, this is not an answer.
I just wanted to let you know I love your question and have enjoyed reading the answers. A star for you.

2007-07-08 11:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by suzy c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Rabbit Man here....my wife Winter asked me to answer this.

No, it is not hard to focus on just her...I love her and she is the mother of our children...One due in September!

She is beautiful and caring and attends to my every need.

If I work late there is a hot dinner and kisses waiting for me when I get home.

She sits with me until I go to bed and rubs my back when it is sore...

So, tell me? Why would I want anyone else? I have everything I need at home waiting for me!

2007-07-08 10:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋

I think it is only natural or I hope it is anyway to want other women. I have a girlfriend who I love but will not marry her like the wants just because of the fact that I get bored of the same woman. I like variety and I imagine others do also. Just be faithful...looking is normal.

2007-07-08 10:54:11 · answer #11 · answered by chrissmcguiree 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋