I think another couple is trying to interfere in the relationship I have with a friend of mine. I think they are trying to turn us against each other. They are often trying to convince me that I need to move on, find someone else. However, I love my friend absolutely and unconditionally and everyone knows this. With these two around, if I even try to hug my friend they act as if I'm trying to hurt her or something. I am wondering if they are saying malicious things about me to her, trying to persuade her to ditch me. These two are very rude, immature, obnoxious, irresponsible, and disrespectful. And they are 37 and 40 years old! Yet they act like teenagers!
What should I do? I feel as if I may lose my best friend because of this other couple.
2007-07-08 10:28:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am 30, my best friend is 53, and most of our mutual friends agree with me that this other couple is nothing but bad news.
Thank you to everyone who has offered advice already. Your input means a lot to me!
2007-07-08 11:34:29 · update #1
clearly, this couple does not like either you or your friend. i would talk to your friend about what they have said to you, and calmly express your feelings about this couple. but remember to make sure that it's known to her that you don't entirely HATE them, because that will give an excuse for her to be invited over without YOU coming, and that when the couple could act. and if you think that this 37 and 40 year old couple are acting like teenagers, then you should go find someone who's your age to talk to. if your friend disagrees with you the whole way through, i would drop the subject because it's HER feelings that matter to you. if SHE is happy, then you should be happy, but you can encourage her opinions and decisions along the way.
2007-07-08 23:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by merri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your case i think that the other couple is either jealous or hates you two and want to break up you two and from the way you are explaining it, it looks like you are having a crush with your best friend. i will advise you to is to call the other couple and tell them how you feel and also metion that if there is something that you don not like about him/her you will find it yourself and that they are not the one to tell you and even if she has a problem you still like him/her just the way they are and nothing can stop you from being friends with them. And i don't think that the other couple are really good friends because why will a good friend want to harm or hurt you.
2007-07-08 10:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by rhoda b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO YOUR FRIEND ASAP!! These kind of people are counting on you not to say a thing. They are most likely saying things about you behind your back. But you need to talk to your friend and bring it to her attention. If you are as old as they are then just talk to her. Don't play the part of helpless and naive little girl and act like you have no control. Stand up for what you believe in. Your friend may even notice this and by you not saying anything their plan is working. Your friend thinks that you don't value your friendship to stand up for it. Just talk to her. Your not in highschool anymore. Tell her everything in your heart and everything will work out just fine. You'll see. You and your friend will be as tight as ever, and those jerk-offs will be out on their childish @$$es. Good Luck honey!!!
2007-07-08 10:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by handvict81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 08:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by duffina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to talk to the friend and see if she notices the same problem, and work on battlling them together. Easiest way is to avoid contact with them, and you and your friend should make plans to do things on your own. The closer you get, the harder for them to break you apart. If your friend really feels the same way as you do, then you may just want to confront them together and tell them to kiss off if they can't be happy for the both of you
2007-07-08 10:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to have a serious talk with your friend to make sure she's aware of what's happening. Then between the two of you decide how best to deal with it.
2007-07-08 10:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like you have the same value system. Hang out with people who bring you up, support you and have no ulterior motives. God Bless!!
2007-07-08 10:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your friends need to grow up and notice that they are out of the 3rd grade
2007-07-08 10:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEIR IS NOT MUCH U CAN DO UR FRIEND HAS TO DO SOMETHING CAUSE IFHE/SHE SEE WHAT THEY ARE DOING TO YALL THEN YALL COULD BOTH BE HAPPY OR U JUST MAYBE WANT UR FRIEND TO URSELF OR MAYBE IT IS U JUST WHAT SOME TIME ALONE WITH UR FRIEND DONT KNOW BUT UR FRIEND SHOULD BE HELPING U IF UR FRIEND WANTS THE SAME THANG
2007-07-08 10:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by MOTHERLAND2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help to the rescue 101.
1)Have Them Come Over
2)Make sure it's just YOU AND THEM:Confrontation
3)Ask questions of why don't you like her being with you.
4)ASK WHAT I DONE THAT MAKES YOU WANT TO BREAK US UP.
5)How can I change
6)what do you want me to do
7)MAKE SURE THEY ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS.
8)Make yourself heard.
I hope this has helped you.
2007-07-08 10:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by yenteramanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋