I met this guy off the internet for sex last nigh; he turned up, & due to one embarrassing thing after the other, we never got around to finish off the act. Anyway, afterwards, we begin to chat and he turned out to be a really nice chap, and we have lots of things in common, and he has the sort of personally I really like, and not bad looking to boot. Anyway, he headed off home at about 6ish this morning after the usual promises about keeping about in touch, and as he disappeared around the corner, I let out a deep sigh and didn’t really think I would hear from him again. Later this evening, I got a simple text message from him, asking me how I was; I sent one back, hinting, that if he was free for a beer sometime…. I got a simple, sort of positive, answer back in reply, seeming to say that he would take me up on the offer. I’m not sure if I’m allowing myself to get carried away by this, or does the manner of our meeting, rule out anything further out.
What do I do? And how, if I do?
2007-07-08 09:44:52 · 27 answers · asked by Trajan 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I posted this question twice by accident, but on reflection, I'm going to leave both questions up under their different category headings.
2007-07-08 09:54:22 · update #1
I don;t think it rules anything out. Just play it by ear and see what happens.
2007-07-08 09:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well u did a good thing by takign it slow after the incident when u hinted u wanted to go out for beers. you didnt just out and say hey i wanna have sex with you again or something like that...if you end up going out for beers then make sure everything runs smoothly...if a couple embarassing things pop out here and there dont worry bout it.
when the date is over and u still want to get to know him some more and want to see him again..simply say "hey well i had a great time tonight,...best i have had in a while..well we should definatly do this again sometime if its ok with you." that will show that
1.you are interested in him
2. you want to see him again
3. you are comfortable being around him
so good luck!
2007-07-16 01:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you and this guy have things in common and can form a relationship , long or short ., then why not have a go ??
Whatever embarrassing things stopped "the act" have probably happened to many other couples and in time they will laugh about them if their relationship blooms .
A relationship is not all about sex so why don't you arrange to meet this guy for a drink and a chat , after that see what develops . Good luck
2007-07-15 13:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Scobill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why the hell not?! people meet in bars, internet, coffee shops, sports events... and naturally, because we are human, sexual attraction is very important. sometimes they go home and have one night things that develop. Anyway, the fact that you didnt get round to it, means it could be all the more special now you have had time to get to know each other.
anything is possible. just take things day by day.
Make sure you go for that drink, and explain to him that you didnt think you'd meet anyone you liked, but its turned out that way. Seems like he feels the same!
2007-07-16 16:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkgemgem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of relationships work out from internet meeting. Don't be put off by it. I say go for it. Ask him out, at the end of the day all he can say is no, and in that case you find someone else babe. Life's too short.. Be Happy! x
2007-07-15 08:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by I-Love-My-Boys 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it but dont play any mind games, that just kills anything good, take your next date as a new start, and be honest and open, OR have a bbq or have a group gathering in a local country park or somewhere - gather some friends and have a bbq , play some rounders, that kind of thing , and invite him that way he can see you as you are in your comfortable surroundings, your friends can meet him (and grill him -no pun lol) and can tell you what they think etc etc...even invite him to bring some friends also -
good luck
2007-07-08 18:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Something can go forth this way (married my husband after this kind of meeting), but be sure you both are on the same page of wanting a relationship. That is, be upfront about your intentions to encourage him to be upfront about his, so there won't be any misunderstandings.
2007-07-08 16:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by eekmod 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Go for it, so many opportunities are there but never taken, if you think you could forge something with this guy and he feels the same then there's no harm in seeing where it both takes you.
I'd do it.
2007-07-09 08:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You may come to laugh about your first meeting later on. See how it goes. You'll know in short order if there is something between you or not.
2007-07-08 16:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
wot does it matter how u met as long as u like each other?jus take it 1 day at a time good luck.
2007-07-15 17:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch with this man in any way possible.Do not let someone have the chance to get your guy.Text him again and tell him you had a great time .Now
2007-07-13 21:25:25 · answer #11 · answered by Billy T 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋