i just want to know what all diffenet people think,
should people wait or, in your opinion, is love the only thing that matters?
2007-07-08 09:37:27 · 15 answers · asked by limallama 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wait because if you do it before, it;ll seem like a fling but then when you do it when you're married, you know that no matter what happens,. for the rest of your life you'll be waking up next to the one you love.
2007-07-08 09:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex is the expression of how you feel. Some people place a lot of importance on when to have it. I find that having sex early and often is the best way. Marriage is only a civil contract, it won't make the sex or the love any better or worse. We should do as we want, and let others do what they want.
2007-07-09 04:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by duaneb_59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm old-fashioned. I think premarital sex is NOT a good idea.
If you notice, a lot of Yahoo Answers posts are about young people - girls, mostly- who started having sex early and who are now in deep problems because they got pregnant and are unwed.
Emotions and feelings are strong, but they change as people grow up and mature. I think everybody should take their time to figure out what they want out of life before thinking about moving in together and having children.... Just my opinion.
2007-07-08 16:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by Nena S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait to have sex until you're married, people don't do this now a days that's why teens get pregnant at such an early age. I'm only 14 and I'm going to wait till' I get married.
2007-07-08 16:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by ❤ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm... I think it depends on your age. I think kids should wait until they are either married or at least wait until they are adults, like over 18!
Now, sex before a 2nd marriage...eh go for it.
2007-07-08 16:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by whatchagonnado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to this question considering that where in theory paring up with a partner for life, if sex is important to you don't you think it would be a good idea to find out before hand what this person is like in bed?
2007-07-08 16:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by AZTECAMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens every day. It at one time was a real head turner, but now is as exceptable as living together first. Providing the persons involved are of age and responsible enough, then why not? Live and let live.
2007-07-08 16:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the couple if both feel the same way then they can wait.
Personally I wouldn't want to wait too many wierd surprises might turn up. I would need to know if we are compatiable in bed.
2007-07-08 16:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really think it matters, i mean, i think that you shouldn't just have sex when ur intoxicated and have no idea whats going on. But i also disagree with those who say that you MUST marry before you have sex, and yes i'm a christian but htink about this...God said to Noah after the flood "Go forth and multiply", he didn't say "Go forth, marry, and multiply".
2007-07-08 16:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by stlouisramfan2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was raised in the sixty so i think you know how i feel about waiting and just in case you don't know anything about the sixty know one waited for marriage that was our parents thing not ours. (Make love not war) PEACE
2007-07-08 16:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋