My GF sat me down and told me she had be going through my E-mails and My Facebook when she was bored. I said, "why would you do that? I'm not cheating on you or doing anything wrong". She said, "I know I was just bored". Personaly it kind of made me mad because I did nothing wrong and yet for some reason she went through my personal stuff.
(how would you feel)?
2007-07-08 08:19:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'd really be angry if this happened to me. Trust is huge in a relationship. Being bored is just not a good enough reason to breach someone's privacy. There are boundaries, even in the most intimate of relationships.
I wonder how she would feel if you did this to her? I'm sorry this happened. You two seem very devoted though, so I am sure you will work it out. Good luck!
2007-07-08 08:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Firespider 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
lol.oh wow. If she doesn't seem mad at you for anything, maybe she was just being nosy a bit. I'm 14 [and a gal], but sometimes my mom asks for my password to my MySpace and she snoops through everything! Although that's her job, she just likes to check up on me. Maybe that's your gf's way of checking on you for "suspicious" things or maybe she just wants to know more about what's going on with you. But it's obvious that she didn't find anything because she would have been catty towards you, so feel good that you don't do anything sneaky behind her back. You should feel relieved in a way because now you know that she knows that you aren't doing anything wrong. And as for your second question; yes, I would feel invaded and privacy deprived, but I'm sure it was nothing too serious. Good Luck! And I would say "Now what?!?!? You thought you were gonna find something!" lol. I would say it jokingly, not to be mean.
2007-07-08 15:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. Everyone has a different level of tolerance on that. She says she was just bored. Its hard to say if that's the 100% truth or not. On the other side I dont think its grounds for breaking up either. Looks like its time to lay the law down. Hope things work out for you.
2007-07-08 15:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you have been together. I would suspect that they did not trust me and would be offended but it would not be a deal breaker for breaking up. Just keep your cool and explain that you feel like she really invaded your privacy and had no reason to do that!!
Good luck!
2007-07-08 15:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by Myra G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so the guilty girlfriend. I have went through my bfs myspace. It got so bad that I asked him to change the password and not tell me. It's not even that I think hes cheating on me. I just wanna know what he thinks and says to his friends.
2007-07-08 15:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do the same to her, if she flips and hits the roof then give her the boot, she obviously either dosen't trust you, or isn't allowing you to have some privacy.
2007-07-08 15:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like she was lookin for trouble and just played it off like she was "bored" when she didn't find anything worth yelling about. I'd feel played. good luck
2007-07-08 15:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by missiface 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You NEED to let her know this is unacceptable behavior! Privacy is important.
Love is the answer, Pandora
2007-07-08 16:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what can you do? its small **** man, dont sweat it and dont let it get to you that bad. maybe she had to do it to trust you, not because of anything you've done but of whats happened to her before.
if theres nothing to hide, then don't worry. I'm sure if anything this will make your relationship stronger.
2007-07-08 15:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by Bob Boblaw 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Change my password so that it wouldnot happen to me again.Every1 needs their privacy
2007-07-08 15:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋