Im not a person who has strong self- esteem. I not skinny either, but i have what any other skinny girl has. I got big hips, big boobs, and a big big. Im not nice size ( and im not plus size!!) And i men like me just as much as a skinny person. And i have a boyfriend. So why do i feel unpretty when a skinny person is near me, or when i eat?
2007-07-08 07:51:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
your a little too self-conscious
your bf likes you so what does it matter
2007-07-08 08:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I can say Is that Sexy is not all based on looks, and that whether or not a women has a full chest or not, a size 0 or a Plus size all I believe that makes a woman Sexy is keeping her head held up high. Whether or not people tell you otherwise, it only matters what you think of yourself, because in the end, only you can truly help yourself---from yourself.
Everybody is different in each of their own ways and of course we've all heard this before, yet when you here this from someone you might not even know, its like a storm splitting in two and POOF!!! the sun comes out and a radiant glow of beautiful on every Womens' faces shining on their personalties and not their figures. A few last words I can leave you with, this is perhaps the most inspiring (and true)quote I have ever read....
"Confidence is the Sexiest thing that a Woman can have, much sexier than any body part."
Always keep your head up ^ > ^ And dont forget to always
spell sexy S-E-X-Y. !!!!!!!!!!
Oh yes and one more to share at the *** wipes that mock us women.......
Life on the planet is born of woman.
by:Adrienne Rich
If anyone comments back ( like man was first, respond> of course....but men dont birth children now do they?)
2007-07-08 08:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by FlirtTatts2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a saying: "The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence." A lot of the quite skinny girls that I know wish that they had more curves. If you're comfortable with your body, make a conscious decision to say: "I don't have to be skinny to be beautiful." It might help to make sure that you have clothes that emphasize your positive attributes and minimize the negative.
2007-07-08 07:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugh I hate these questions. Please dont think I am disrespecting you in any way, but asking the people on YA if your sexy or not will NOT give you an accurate answer. Trust me, most of these people, not all, post really dumb and rude answers back.
You should just feel comfortable with you. If your boyfriend loves you the way you are, then what other people think dont matter at all and just keep telling yourself that.
If your it really bothers you, maybe you could just start going for walks, take you bf with you. You'll get in shape slowly over time AND its good bonding time with him!
2007-07-08 07:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer the question "why you feel bad" but, I have an idea to make you feel better about yourself. When you start to feel self-concious, think about what your best friend or boyfriend would say about you instead. Soon, you will begin to hear that, not something bad.
2007-07-08 07:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
cocky just a bit...no one cares what you look like or if your big if your bf thiks your "sexy", thats the only person how should matter
2007-07-08 08:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviously you dont think you are and that attitude SUCKS not go cry yourself to sleep cuz you are so not sexy
2007-07-08 08:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe its cuz ur big
2007-07-08 08:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by mattdr46 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋