2007-07-08 06:43:59 · 13 answers · asked by A 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
A feeling of investment - of time, emotional energy, and formation of future expectations together - on the relationship puts tension on it. This creates for you a dichotomy in the person for which you have an infatuation. At once you see the potential of having a great relationship and future with this person and, yet, if they are not quite meeting up to your expectations, they assume the role of the destroyer of your dreams. You see them as both the creator and potential destroyer of your happiness. So you both love and hate this person at the same time for in them you've relied upon your very happiness.
2007-07-08 08:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Happy Little Moron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but you hate the actions of the person, the way the treat you or someone or something else, their illegal actions like the use of drugs or criminal acts. But the love for that person is the underlying goodness that is seldom seen by others.
The trick is if you are looking for a last relationship, does the "hate" outweigh the "love?"
2007-07-08 13:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say that love and hate are just different degrees of the same thing. I love my boyfriend but I sometimes feel like I really hate him when we are arguing. You can also love someone but hate who they've become, or hate things about them that they can't/won't change....it's complicated, as I'm sure you know since you're asking this question!
2007-07-08 13:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by jenni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can have different feelings about various aspects of his personality and his lifestyle.
For example, you may hate his demeanor when he is inebriated but love his dogged pursuit for a solution to a problem.
2007-07-08 13:57:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but I would prefer to love the person all the time, it's a lot healthier.
2007-07-08 13:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. when you love someone and they treat you bad, you feel that you love this person and hate him at the same time..
2007-07-08 15:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by black fox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I feel that way about a Gemini man at any given time of the day. He doesn't give me attention I get mad. I get mad when he gives me attention. But deep down I feel love too.
2007-07-08 14:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to love to hate and you need to hate to love.
Feeling nothing... just not caring... that is a different story.
2007-07-08 15:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by BorgQueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. it's similar to the old adage about love the sinner hate the sin.
2007-07-08 13:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Enough said.
2007-07-08 13:47:17 · answer #10 · answered by Vixen23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋