How do you convince a parent that you DON"T do drugs?

Question

I have talked to her countless times and she really doesn't care what say... oh and drug tests have been done (always negative)

Answer 1

Wow even after drugs tests? When you go out, you could tell them to check you to see for themselves that you haven't taken anything, but quite honestly, if you know you haven't done anything, why do you have to prove yourself? they should learn to trust you.

Answer 2

I can tell you from experience that there is no way to convince them. My dad tore my room apart several times looking for drugs. I am 23 and to this day I've never even smoked a cigarette but he swore up and down I was doing drugs. Just try to see it from her view as a paranoid mom trying to keep her daughter safe. I know it's frustrating but get into the routine of taking the drug tests and answering he questions. You will be out on your own in no time so humor her for now.

Answer 3

Well, there isnt really anything you can do about it. If they dont believe you then its not your problem. Just let them keep drug testing you and when it keeps on showing up negative they will eventually get the point that you dont do drugs.
And if they are freaking out that much about you doing drugs then they obvously have some huge fear that some day you will do drugs, so just sit them down and talk to them and try to understand what is going on in their head.
orr you could just piss them off and do some drugs and then see what they say. lol.

Answer 4

There is no way in the world to prove a negative. You can prove that something HAPPENED but you can never prove that something DIDN'T happen.

That's why a situation like you're in really sucks. There's no way out of it. Come home a few minutes late from school? it must be drugs. Sleep through the alarm clock? Drugs.

Hopefully your mom will come to her senses eventually. If not, SHE may be on drugs.

Good luck, and I believe you.

Answer 5

Yeah if you've already taken drug tests you might strt asking YOUR parent if THEY are on drugs. usually when people do that kind of thing ( ie. "You are doing _____!") it's because they are the ones who are doing it. Sorry kid your parent sound like a loon. Good luck to you. Dont let it drive you to do drugs though.

Answer 6

Ummmm....you tell her you don't do drugs...my brother insists I do drugs...but my mom knows better and plus I have learned from my cousin's mistakes not to do drugs...but ur mom should trust you and you need to tell her to trust u...and if the tests r negative they r negative

Answer 7

take a sarcastic tone.
anytime she asks you what have you been doing or do you do drugs, say, well, no, im not doing drugs right now, i cant seem to find my hookah or my bong...and give her a really annoyed look to show that you arent being serious.
or if she asks you what you were doing with your friends say, well, we were gonna do meth, but _____(friends name) was all out of spoons. it was a bummer. and give her the same look as before.
and if she STILL keeps bugging you, ask her if you can go to the hospital.
when she says why, say, i just want to fake an appendicitis attack so i can get some needles. the grip is starting to get to me and i need some heroin or cocaine like RIGHT F***IN NOW.
GODDAMN.
hahaha.
i bet she'll leave you alone by then.

Answer 8

well there must be a reason y she thinks that way. stop doing w/e causes her to think that way and act normal. Make sure that she knows ur a good kid and that u luv her....she'll *** around. but if ther's any reason y she thinks u hav anything to do with drugs, then u shud stop w/e ur doing.
good luck!

Answer 9

Then why on earth are you suspected of drugs???, were you caught, did some one rat on you and if you could tell us if you actually do them or not would be helpful. I cant see why they would suspect you otherwise

Answer 10

If your parents trust you you wouldn't have to convince them so. Either talk to them and explain why you don't. or give them a reason to trust you