My friend is 22 and is still a virgin! In fact she's never had a boyfriend or even been kissed. She was very shy growing up and has only started to come into herself now! She is really pretty and has a great personality. I'm just afraid she's missing out!
2007-07-08 04:19:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
No her name is not Katie Anne!!
I never knew this abt her cos we've only been friend for abt 3 years!
She was ayin she thinks abt it alot and sometimes gets very stressed and depressed abt it! she wonders why she's not "normal"!!
2007-07-08 04:25:38 · update #1
so whats the question?????
2007-07-08 04:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is your question should she have sex than? Sure, nothing wrong with sex. To all the people acting like being a virgin forever is such a great thing, it's not. To the people saying "what? missing out on STDs and pregnancies" and blah blah blah, give me a break. It's called being safe. They make these things now, maybe you people have heard about them, they're called condoms. To the guy that said sex isn't that good, you must be doing it wrong. I feel bad for the women you've been with. Sex is great and it's natural. You're suppose to have sex. Now, if the question is, how to get her out and get her laid, well, that's not hard at all. It's a lot easier for a woman to get laid than a guy. Women are constantly getting hit on by guys. She should go out and meet a good guy, or at least a guy good for one night, haha (bad joke I know). I know it's kinda sleezy and probably not the best, but there is always those Internet sites just for people trying to hook up. You know if she wants to get some but has a hard time talking to someone. I don't know, that's all I can do to help besides going over there and doing it myself. You guys aren't by any chance in Phoenix are you? (OK I know, another bad joke.) Anyways, tell her not to stress about it. It'll happen eventually, and hopefully when it does she'll find someone good enough at it that it's a good experiance.
2007-07-08 11:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Why are you worried she is missing out? Because she respects herself enough not to give it out? Because she doesnt' treat virginity like a disease one must rid yourself of? Good for her! Leave her alone and don't treat her like there is something wrong with her. There is something wrong with the rest of us for losing our virginity to because we thought we were missing out on something.
There will be lots of time for sex in life and she may be one of the lucky people that gets to save it for the right person.
2007-07-08 11:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sex is way overrated and rushing into it when you aren't ready can lead to all kinds of problems. You should help your friend meet new friends, men and women, and the will help her overcome her shyness. She'll find the right person and make love when she's ready. Don't force her; it'll only lead to trouble.
2007-07-08 11:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by Bob 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I think that you shouldn't rush her, or give an impression that she is missing out. I am sure, she is aware of the whole situation, and maybe she is just waiting for the right time, the right person.
2007-07-08 11:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by sonia 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Losing one's virginity doesn't constitute "missing out". Actually she doesn't have to have any regrets about any unfortunate relationships. Let her concentrate on life itself and eventually the chapter that involves an emotional romantic episode will appear. best wishes
2007-07-08 11:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Missing out? Not at all. I think that it is wonderful that she is still a virgin and she should hold on to that as long as she can, because as we all know once it is gone that's it there is no getting back.
2007-07-08 11:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Leah 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
take her to a place where you can both socialize with people, like a party or a gathering or something. you said that she's finally becoming herself, so try and bring it out. see how she does talking with other people, and be there to encourage her. make her feel comfortable talking to people she's just meeting, and maybe something will come from it.
2007-07-08 11:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by merri 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you re girl Friend is one to be admired i would say that you re girl Friend this is the girl i would like to marry even though I've never meet her the girl is priceless &has not missed one thing
& i have the utmost respect for her may she have ahappy life.
2007-07-08 11:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by david p 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
shell have her day. don't worry to much but if you want try to invite her out and stuff. make her more active. or try to talk about sex with her. maybe shes just unaware of it. some people just don't find sex great as others do. its quite normal so i would let her be.
2007-07-08 11:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by <SuRvivE> 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Good for her. She's waiting until she finds "the one". She has (at least) 60 years to have sex. She do it when she is ready. Don't rush her!
2007-07-08 11:42:15 · answer #11 · answered by catsmeowjrk2000 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋