I am in love with a girl and she loves me too.suddenly she got married to another guy.?

Question

This is really happened to me.i cant forget that girl because i really and heart fully love that girl.I cant bare this pain also.Still she loves me.How i have to come out of this pain.

Answer 1

uh...I hate to break it to you, but she does NOT love you. If she did, she would marry you, not the other guy. You need to forget her and try to find your happiness with someone else.

Answer 2

There could be a couple of reasons, She may love you but maybe more as a friend not as someone she thought she could marry. Some women can say I love you but it's nothing more then words there isn't any true deep feeling behind it.
You were not totally clear on your relationship like was there kissing or even sex involved if there was neither then your true love was not really reciprocated. One curious thing is you didn't know about this other guy? She never mention him? Like someone else said they didn't meet a week ago they probably have been dating for awhile. Some women can give mixed signals, or you were seeing what you wanted to see and missed it and love has a tendency to do that. But since she did marry someone else she showed you how she really felt about you and I would walk away. You need to put your effort somewhere else find someone new and get on with your life you will just make your miserable.I would also not stay in contact with her because through it all she was not totally honest with you about her feelings and you just don't need the headache......

Answer 3

Buddy, she didnt just marry this guy out of the clear blue sky, she was probably dating him at the same time as you. There is nothing you can do but toss your line back in the water and go fishing for another girl. Keep yourself busy, dont spend time alone, and try your best not to think about her. Every man suffers a broken heart, you are no different and will be alright.

Answer 4

Time cures all pain.Believe me its probably going to hurt for a while,as time goes on it will hurt less and less.I really think this might be a blessing in disguise.This girl doesn't sound like she is worth the pain,she is love with you and she marries someone else,this girl has no heart.

Answer 5

Well, Chandra, I am very sorry for your pain.

I want to answer the question you asked before about love.

If you want to know if she is going to fall in love with her husband just because he is entitled to sex, then the answer is no.

Apparently he was not her choice. A woman who is expected to provide sex for a man she does not love, especially when she is in love with someone else, will not appreciate the experience. It just becomes a vulgar act, something to have over with as soon as possible. Not an act of love.

I'm sure she is missing you, too. I am sorry for your loss. I hope the insight helps.

Answer 6

I knew such a story, too. A guy was "in love" and strained her for two years, then she met a man, they rapidly fell in love and married in a couple of months. And she is happy now.
It's just your ego, you did not want to marry her, just to keep her, as a proverbial cake. You will be back on track in a couple of weeks.

Answer 7

if shes married than im really sorry but she off limits dude.
if she married someone else then she only loved you as a friend and you need to get over it. you can do better man trust me

Answer 8

Try to avoid seeing her and avoid all contact. Wait 2 weeks and then start dating other girls.

Answer 9

She really isn't deserving of your love.
Not if she went off and married someone else.
You need to really move on.
Find someone that will love you as much as you love them.
Don't wait to be 2nd best.

good luck

Answer 10

Seek therapy to deal with it.It works.