sex 3 times pregnancy help needed?

Question

had sex with my girlfriend 3 times at the start of may she now says she is pregnant 12 weeks according to her would this be possible after only 3 time(she has 4 already) i just think its unlikey its mine she says is 13-14 weeks but im sure its only 11/12 weeks. Is the date of conception accurate?please someone help me

(when i say 4 i mean she already has 4 kids)

ok thanks for all your help she tells me its mine but im not 100% sure. basically she says we had sex 2 weeks before we did but we didnt i know for sure it was the start of may but dates are not accurate as people have said. i will have to wait and see.thankyou for your help

EDIT PLEASE READ!she told me she was pregant the 2nd/3rd week in may(concpetion was 1st may)and she was 4 weeks but i didnt know the date of of last period was incuded in this which would have made it 4 weeks, thats why i thought she was lying i think ive made a massive mistake here and she was right

Answer 1

I say you stop fussing over calculations and stop contradicting yourself. I doubt wholeheartedly that your girlfriend would tell you two different dates of conception like you have here.

Any amount of times over 0 times is enough times to get a woman pregnant. 1 time, 2 times, 18 times it does not matter AT all if you have sex there ARE consequences.

If she's pregnant and its yours, man up. Stop running around in circles like you're chasing your tail. Own up to what you did. If you always go back to the EXACT date of conception by the number of weeks she is then you're going to get screwed up anyway. According to my pregnancy calendar I'm 8 weeks but I can guarantee to you that 8 weeks ago when I had my period I wasn't having sex with my husband.

The amount of weeks a woman gives you or a doctor gives her is not accurate and you won't know for sure about how far along a woman is until the first ultrasound.

They aren't counting back from the date you were having sex, they are counting back from the last time she had a period. The first day of her last period she's not likely ovulating so even if you did have sex with he on her period, which is icky but to each his own, you probably wouldn't make baby.

Go with her to her appointments. Be supportive. You must be young because usually young boys think its okay to accuse the person they were sticking of cheating on them, because they don't want to own up to what they did. If you stick it you need to be AWARE always!

When the baby is born, request a DNA test. When (not if) they say its yours own up and learn from what you did. That kid is going to need BOTH of his/her parents.

Sex isn't everything and if you can't wrap it up don't do the deed. Oh and even condoms fail...

Answer 2

It really depends on how you calculate it. 12 weeks since the first day of her last period, or 12 weeks gestation. Even doctors calculate it differently.

You also contradicted yourself in the question, first you said that she said she was 12 weeks, and then you said she said that she was 13-14, and you think she is 11 to 12.

Seriously, if she is pregnant and there is a chance it is yours you are going to have to be there for her, so stop fussing over dates that aren't accurate, even a doctor will tell you this. Go with her to the next appointment, and wait to get a DNA test.

I wish you the best of luck

Answer 3

Yes, I gotten pregnant 2 times only having sex once in a month. As for the dates the doctors add on 2 weeks from your last period even though the women isnt pregnant. So the dates sound right to me. only other thing to do is get a blood test when the baby is born. GOOD LUCK

Answer 4

One time can do it, but you can ask for a paternity test when the baby is born. If there's any doubt, you will want a paternity test. I don't know if they can do a paternity test on a fetal blood sample before the baby is born.

The number of weeks is estimated, and it's not unusual for this to be off by a week or two either way. Did she tell you as soon as she missed her period, or only now that she's 12-weeks? Does she want to keep the baby? Doesn't sound like super-Mom, so be careful and insist on the paternity test.

And as you've just figured out, use protection so you don't end up having more unplanned kids!

Answer 5

If you had sex with her at the start of may she wouldn't b 13-14 weeks pregnant. Look at a calender and count back the weeks. If she was 13-14 weeks she would of conceived in start to mid April. Of course she could get pregnant after only having sex 3 times it only takes once to make a baby.

Answer 6

It only takes one time to get pregnant! It is very possible that it is yours.

The date of conception is hard to pick. When they say 13 weeks, it's calculated from the first day of her last period, not the day of conception. Conception happens about 2 weeks after that, so it is only 11 weeks from conception (sorry if that's confusing!)

Here's an article that will explain it better:

http://www.babycentre.co.uk/pregnancy/fetaldevelopment/01weekconception/

I think it is yours, but only a paternity test can tell for sure.

Answer 7

Due dates are calculated from the last known menstrual period. eg. if a woman is considered to be 4 weeks pregnant, then she concieved roughly 2 weeks ago. Ask yourself these questions... Are you her only partner? Is she usually an honest/trustworthy person? does she have any reason to lie?

Sounds to me as though you could very well be the father of this baby!

Answer 8

Well if she has been pregnant 4 times already then I am sure she knows how it works. And conception doesnt always happen right away so its hard to tell at this point. You will just have to wait and see.

Answer 9

The only time a woman is able to become pregnant is during the time of her ovulation. It is very easy to track this, but takes a little time to figure out the exact time of the month when you are ovulating. If you are not, then you should be fine. If you are, then you should worry a little. If you are concerned about pregnant, go to you doctor and get birth control. It is very easy to do.

Answer 10

It only takes one time to get pregnant. Due dates are not always accurate.