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Do I need money, girlfriend? I am not rich and not too handsome.

2007-07-08 01:11:03 · 6 answers · asked by tocorrect 1 in Social Science Other - Social Science

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Trust me when i say, good looks, money, girlfriend, and all those in between does bring fame and improves self confidence!
BUT THESE ARE JUST SHORT TERM EFFECTS.
they will soon worn out and you will bounce back to your original self.

The only thing to do is, you have to, improve your social skills!
U have to voice out your opinion.
U have to make yourself be heard.
U have to get people to notice you.
Yea it will be tough but it works.
Push your way through.
Do not worry on what people will think of u.
As what they think will only be there for a short time.
When u realize your able to do all these, the confidence will grow gradually.
No matter how u look or how low in $$$ u are.. all u have to think is, THIS IS HOW I LOOK, THESE IS WHAT I GOT. EITHER U EXCEPT IT OR BUZZ OFF...
This is the very thought that has taught me a lot in dealing with others, and in improving my self confidence. My confidence level was ground zero last time.

Good luck!

2007-07-08 02:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by C-va™ 3 · 0 0

By NOT CARING!
About what other people think about you, and CARING about what you think about your self. The world is full of critics. If you make the mistake of listening to them, you can kiss your self confidence good bye. Many people can only feel good about themselves by feeling BETTER than other people. Please don't confuse this with self confidence. That is actually the opposite, insecurity brought on by jealousy.
Jealousy will also undermine your self confidence. Just remember that it is an instinct which can be overcome.

2007-07-08 09:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by phil8656 7 · 0 0

I don't believe you need dollars, or scents. It is important for to you appear (and are) clean and well groomed, are dependable, have steady employment, or are a student, have good moral values, and see women as your equal. Self confidence results from success. Find your success in the areas you are most comfortable in. Your successes will empower you. To me, the sound of a fellows voice and laughter, his general appearance of health, and VERY important is dental hygiene and health. I look at dental hygiene first. If your teeth or crooked, get braces. They are not cheap, but most periodontists have good payment plans. OK. Good luck. I believe you will be successful.

2007-07-08 03:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Being young and having no confidence in yourself must be very embarrassing and .....even dangerous!!! Confidence comes through hard work, both professional and getting life experience. Nose up!!! It will come.

2007-07-12 00:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Alina M 3 · 0 0

Look at yourself in a mirror and say that your good.

2007-07-08 02:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by blueroro93 2 · 0 0

with hard work

2007-07-08 01:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Rana 7 · 0 0

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