Sometimes i feel bored with life.?

Question

I have no friends my own age, i have problems with my family, i live with my bf and that's ok but i feel so bored all the time,
I feel like im diffrent from other people, everytime I make friends or try to people back away, there's just something about me people don't like and I have no idea why?
Im nice, polite and friendly, I smile at everyone and don't judge people, I don't smoke or drink so I feel that's why people don't like me cause I don't smoke or drink so I have nothing that they want, I'm not rich but not excactly poor eather I feel stresed all the time, why do I feel like this????
I just get sick of getting up in the morning to do the same old things everyday, living the same problems. Including family, friends, money, stress, housework, homework.
Why do I feel like this?

Answer 1

Look I do not really know you but I have exactly the same kinda problem. I am a sweet guy, polite and friendly, avoid all possible controversies or criticism against people

I guess both of us have this problem because we are among some very few good and reliable people. Its hard to find good people in this world and believe me it si still a mystry why people like us do not easily find friends who can be trusted,

There is nothing wrong with you or me. I guess its difficult to find people who think like you. If you do not mind I can be ur friend. I feel personally that you are very much like me in the way you feel abt life and people in general. You can email me. Would love to communicate with you

TAke care

Answer 2

not enough challenges in your life. Most of us in western society now, or lets say anyone who had the resources to be reading this right now, is generally suffering from the fact we spent the last 40,000 years living hard day to day, and now have more free time on our hands in a week than we would have had in a year before.

Even compared to our grandparents or great grandparent generation who worked 6 till 6 or whatever for minimum wages, or in some countries were still peasants scratching a living.

At the end of their work day, when they didn;t get killed in the field, when war was not declared on some other country, when their kid did not catch tetanus, and they could just relax for a few minutes they sat on the porch holding each others hands and it would have felt like magic.

Just to sit there at the table looking into each others faces. What a thrill for them. Absolute bliss.

And look at us with everything available like kings. We eat a and drink till we are fat, have radios and TV's plugged into us all day with a choice of a million entertainments at our fingertips. Jobs we can walk in and out of, education for all, alchohol five nights a wekk if we want.And the scariest thing is how much our next cellphone bill is.

is it any wonder you are bored?

Why you feel the boredom is because you are more intelligent than the average person and your subconscious is telling you something about all this sitting around is not right with you.

You are probably descended from some hardass in the old days who took over a country or something...

So do something.Travel, study more, invent a longer lasting lightbulb, be the first girl on the moon whatever.

Answer 3

It's an odd thing that when we try too hard for people to like us, they back away.
You shouldn't change the not smoking or drinking just to make friends.
The rest of what you are experiencing is just life and you seem to be having "growing pains". We all have routines that we have to follow and that's life, you'll adjust.

Answer 4

I know how you feel.Sometimes we just get stuck. When I get to feeling stuck, I'll take some kind of class or I'll get in my car and go explore something new. I recently moved to a different state and there is no family here. Actually it's really nice not to have to deal with other peoples drama. Figure out what you like and go after it. Have a great day!

Answer 5

I felt like this a few years ago. I did nothing all the time but go to school, and when i was at home watch telly or computer. i had one close friend at school and he was a bit dull and all the others were close to so many other people and used to look down on me.
But now i have met a whole new load of people from outside school. i now have the best times in my life and have so many close friends that mean the world to me. we go out and get drunk every weekend [and smoke irrelevantly] and gernerally make our own fun at school. those other people found out about it and now they are half decent to me, even though they shout death sticks or act all chavish to take the piss out of me, even tho alot of the ppl i hang around with are emo. but i now pity THEM coz they just sit at home doing nothing on saturday nights.

Answer 6

well if ur bored of whatever then try to do something new and if the people u hang wit don't like u cause u don't smoke or drink then don't be friends with them cause u should be friends with people that like for who u are ,and for ur problems try ur best to resolve them with ur family cause i didn't solve mine and i regret it and hate myself for it,and if ur are truly nice and friendly then just wait and people will want to be ur friend. i don't know exactly why u feel like but just try these things out or whatever.k

Answer 7

you just need to change your routine a little and not put yourself down so much, you can also join a club doing something that you are interested in or local sports club. Just beacause you do not drink or smoke that is not a legit reason to be liked.......... you should be liked for who you are.......

Answer 8

i know what's your problem...you just need an exciting life to overcome this boredom.what you can do is to save some money throughout the year and travel abroad...come to Mauritius,Seychelles,or any island lost in the oceans...you will meet different people,new places,new adventures,etc...

Answer 9

me too! i want to do so many things and yet i still don't do anything to change my routine.. so my advice to you is try out different things like be adventurous, do some traveling, try rock climbing or bungee jumping, the works....