Ladies, do you enjoy the freedom you have when you are completely obedient to your man with all due humility?

Question

That is, by submitting to and obeying your man in all circumstances you have the freedom to 'let go' and not worry about making decisions. I really believe that is something to be enjoyed by women and it is up to the men to be strong and good leaders to give women this cherished freedom and peace of mind.

Answer 1

How is being a slave Independence? I'd rather 'worry' about making decisions, rather then be told what to do all the time. Because it's not like I didn't do that before. It's not like I can't think for myself, it's not like I don't have my own brain, my opinions, my own life! I'd 'let go' of someone who trys to dictate me. And if you think females should 'enjoy' being bossed around, then why don't you let yourself be the whimpering dog?

Answer 2

If he came home one day and said, "Hon, I'm taking over all the finances. You will never have to juggle the budget again." I think I'd do the happy dance. BUT...then he's going to have to really do it, and do it the right way. What's the point of abdicating if all you get back is ruins? No, thanks, I'll drive, right?

I mean, you can't come to me one day and say, "Hey, I messed it up, so theres no grocery money this week." That plan is not going to work.

You talk about obedience a lot. I don't obey him because he doesn't have to say, "Hon, that's inappropriate dress, hon, make sure you wash the towels, hon, take the boy to the ballpark at 3, etc..." because I already can function independently in my activities of daily living. This allows him to expend his gray matter on important things, like when and how we're gonna switch the cars out for maintenence, for example.

You train your kids to obey you because you are teaching them Responsibility. You have to do your homework. You have to do your chores. You may not wear inappropriate clothing, to school, or anywhere else for that matter. The key is that when they are grown, they know what the right decision is, and they have a decent work ethic.

Now they are equipped to be an awesome partner. So, I've already taught my kids not to curse, and to be responsible with their dress, their jobs, their homes and their families. All your ordering about is redundant.

If an adult can't function independently without someone having to give instruction constantly then it's time to go to the group home. The nice people there will instruct you all day long, help you get your laundry done, plan your daily activities, and basically manage your funds for you.

When you take away someones ability to think independently, you end up with a pet. So until you're ready to accept that your partner should be a functioning adult, you're gonna end up always focusing on how to repair your partner and looking for fault.

This does not foster Respect. Relationships in which there is no Respect die.

The way you talk you act as if you'd enjoy being in a relationship with someone who is learning disabled. At the rate you're going, a dog will do.

Is it that intimidating to think that your partner would not be one hundred percent submissive to you? What do you think is going to happen? I mean, worst case scenario, what's she gonna do, tell you she's wearing the jeans today? Whoo ha, son. That should be your most important focus daily. What a peachy life you would lead.

What are you going to do when your kid starts just falling down and has to be run through batteries of tests, and pulled out of school because the falling is such a hazard, and you and mommy have to travel with her to a specialist only to find out your 8 year old has grand mal seizures. (My partner's oldest child, when she was 8, true story.)

Do you really think your mind and heart can handle dealing with that and remember to tell your wife to wear the blue shirt, not the red, and make sure she remembered to clean the floors? Are you going to want to drag her along behind you through all the worry and stress, or do you want someone who can function? Don't get trapped off. Life can be pretty mean.

You want a partner you can admire and depend on, not someone who's gonna let you pick them apart every day. So when life deals you that little slap, like epilepsy, or autism, or a car accident, or cancer, you have someone you can lean on.

Answer 3

I obey my husband, still there are decisions that we make together as a team, decisions as to which chair to buy or the color of curtains, cause that's what we are a team; other than that he has the final word. The thing is I have a brain and I should be allowed to use it; no man, trust me on this wants to be married to an idiot, unless he's an idiot himself..

Answer 4

I love to be obedient to my husband, and have him make alot of the decisions. He is a good, strong man, and he is much more logical than I am. I base my decisions on my emotions, and he bases his decisions based on logic, so he usually makes better decisions. I like it that way!

Answer 5

I don't think it's a good thing to be completely dependent on someone when you're a grown up. How would you take care of yourself when your man died or ran off with another woman? I think it's really important to learn how to take responsibility for yourself, your actions and your life. I do know someone who lives like you described and she claims she likes it like that. She also teaches her daughter to be obedient to men and I fear for her daughter's well being. There are a lot of bastards out there ,you know, waiting to take advantage.

Answer 6

Yes!!! So many women think that by submitting that they are losing something. Not true! It's such a beautiful thing to let go and let him be in the role that is natural for a man to be in. Its amazing to be taken care of in all things. <3

Answer 7

Well, that depends. Do you believe that women should be seen and not heard? or do you value a woman's opinion about the situation before you make those decisions?

Answer 8

Being obedient to a man never got me anything good. I'm sorry, that will never happen. We either make decisions together or not at all.

Answer 9

Hey Mister! I have been that way for way too many years! It is called bondage. You would 'adore'my husband then! He also believes complete control comes from a few bruises here and there,such a 'wonderful' existence!

Answer 10

I think you're a control freak. I think YOU are WRONG, and I would really be surprised if you even had a female friend let alone a girlfriend or wife.