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Question

as a woman, i am not getting enough from my husband. He only wants it once a week, maybe! What to do!! I will not cheat!

Answer 1

The obvious question is why your husband is so passionless? Men do not usually want to talk about it. Is he not attracted to you anymore, or is he not interested in sex anymore? Men do not usually change is this area unless they are backed into a corner in which case they tend to cheat which actually means they are unhappy with their home situation not only between the sheets.

To talk to him is going to be hard. He may not be honest and may accuse you of being the problem. Do not use the "leave him" trump card--just keep it in the back of your mind as a possible option down the line. Remember, you deserve to be happy.

Answer 2

Well, he is such a lucky guy and he does not even realize it.

OK, well, maybe you can heat it up a little bit. Find out what turns him on, act out some fantasies (between you two not a threesome or anything like that). Maybe rent some adult movies, buy lingerie, or talk dirty. Not all of this will work. It just depends on what he likes. Some guys (I don't know who) are offended or turned off by porn. You just have to look at what he likes and try to bring that into the picture.

He may also have a low sex drive which it sounds like he does, so it may be a physical thing. He may be low on certain hormones? He may have a emotional problem or worried about finances, worried about kids, etc. You might have to see if there is something you can help him with to get over the low sex drive. Good luck.

Answer 3

Tell him that once a week is not enough. If he can't do it someone else will. Buy a couple of toys to take care of business for yourself until he either fulfills his DUTY, let's you have a boyfriend, (it is not cheating if you have his permission), or you get a divorce. I have seen people split over more stupid reasons than lack of sex! Actually, he may like the idea of watching you with another man.

But the reality of it is that you will have to divorce or find a boyfriend. (Or you could just spike his supper drink with Viagra whenever you want some!)

Answer 4

I haven't been either lately, but for me, it's stress. I've been nagging him. Any of that going on? Do you take the initiative? Don't pressure him, but give him a back rub or something nice like that. If all else fails, don't cheat or threaten to cheat. Vibrators can be your best friend. If you start using one, maybe he'll wanna join!

Answer 5

Did you use to say no alot? maybe hes tired of being told no or trying and getting shot down. Dont nag, pick a fight or place blame, but do tell him you miss him and his sex, his touch and attetion,initiate the initmacy more often. You could leave notes, rub his back, feet, touch him just to touch him, not just for sex, remind him that you want him and how irrestible you find him sometimes and keep him interested and things new..........leave notes, cd's with songs his car, text him something sexy, leave him a sexy voice message or call him ,

Answer 6

Here are your options:

1. Masturbate
2. Lose weight, tone up, and try to look young again
3. Make things exciting in the bedroom
4. Seek couseling for the both of you
5. Email me

Answer 7

Then you need to find a way to get him in the mood more often. Try wearing sexy clothes, after dinner drinks, or don't wear anything to bad. Hope this helps

Answer 8

If he is healthy, and has no problem with his heart, or blood pressure or diabetes, than slip him a Viagra pill in his food, and pleasantly surprise him.

Answer 9

The best thing to do is talk to him, let him know that it is bothering you and go from there. Once you bring it up he may open up to you and let you know why it is how it is.
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Answer 10

I am a shift worker and my wife was getting a bit frustrated.
I bought her a little vibrating rabbit from the sex shop.
Very powerful. she loves it.