How would I know if my man is masturbating?

Question

Just wondering if there are signs a man is masturbating without telling you?

just for the record it doesn't bother me at all I was just wondering.

Answer 1

no signs but why would you want to know? it is proven that a man will do that even if he is getting enough sex and is satisfied

Answer 2

Men masturbate all the time. It's perfectly normal. However, it's not normal for a guy to inform his girl of when or how he chooses to do this. It's usually a private thing just between him and himself. Please don't pester him about it.
Why are you worried about it? If you need reassurance from him, ask him about masturbation, and why guys do it, what it means..etc. But don't be accusative. He hasn't done anything wrong.
Why do you think he should need to tell you when he does it? Masturbation in no way resembles any kind of infidelity. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you or that he's not satisfied with you or anything like that. It just feels good.
Men think of sex at least 100X more every day than women do. What better way is there to pass the time? It doesn't cost a thing. It doesn't require any effort from anyone else. And doesn't hurt anyone.
You shouldn't feel bad about it cause it's no reflection on how he feels about you. He is not cheating on you, and you shouldn't make him feel like he's not allowed to do this, or that he needs your permission. Or that he needs to tell you when he does it.

P.S. No I'm not a man.

If it doesn't bother you and you already know all about this, then why on earth would you be so interested or say something irrational like "without telling you" ?

Answer 3

Well, let's see. Is he male? Is he over the age of 13? Is he medically sound? Okay, then he's masturbating.
You ask the question with perhaps a hint of disapproval? Or is that my projection? Masturbation is normal, healthy and enjoyable. Like everything else, if done to excess it can be harmful. You might offer to assist whenever he is interested in doing it. Here is a potential for more intimate moments. He can do you and you can do him.

Answer 4

There are times that you can be involved but then there are them times when a man just needs to release some pressure and what better way then masturbation. It's a form of therapy for us.

Answer 5

He's a man. That's your #1 giveaway.

Seriously. Doesn't EVERYONE masturbate? Don't you?

PS - It's a private thing, and really none of your business.

Answer 6

JB, like the others have said - odds are *strongly* that he is. I think perhaps the better question would be, would it bother you if he is? It's a normal, healthy thing for men to do... provided he isn't rejecting you in favor of self-loving, there's really nothing wrong with it. :)

Answer 7

if he has dark circles under his eyes and got enough sleep the night before. True- I have noticed it because masturbating causes a strain on a man- the dark circles will form

Answer 8

If he is, the "stuff" has to end up somewhere. Check the trashcans for tissues or paper towels. Check the laundry for towels or under clothing that is unusually "starchy". His "stuff" dries similar to how mucous does. He may not necesarily need it, but do a brief search for porn. By magazine, video or DVD. Check places you don't pay attention to. What's out of your sight is out of your mind. So, try looking under YOUR panty drawer or dresser or nightstand.

Answer 9

It usually can be realized by the amount and texture of his spe*rm fluids. Creamy white and lots means he isn't getting very much or it has been a while. Clear and small amounts (looks like the after fluids) says he had some recently. Where he is getting it is for you to find out.

Answer 10

He's a man...he has a d*** and he has a pair of hands. YES he masturbates.

The easist way to tell if your BF or husband will ever lie to you, Ask him if he has ever, or currently masturbates, If he says no...he's a liar.