What is the hardest thing you've ever had to do, and was it the right choice for you?

Answer 1

My dad was a Hell's Angel, and from the time that I was about 13 years old, My old man, Sonny Barger and the rest of the crazies let me know that I was expected to pledge!!! But I didn't, when I was eighteen I joined the Air Force. Now I didn't take the easy way out, I was PJ. We went to where any pilot was down and picked him up, whatever condition he was in, and this was during the Viet Nam war!!! Anyway Joining the AF and not the HA'S was a very hard thing to do!!! They've all forgiven me now!! "an hour or so later" I've been thinking about it and I'm not sure that was the hardest. I'd been out of the AF for about two weeks and my wife Aly and me were vacationing in Key West we were riding my bike around and we came up to Miami to party. An old lady pulled in front of me and I hit her!!! We both flew for yards off the bike. The old bat broke my back but she killed Aly. The love of my life!! Anyway I was in the hospital and rehab. for eight months, But the hardest thing I ever did was going to Aly's grave and apologize to her for killing her!!! That will be thirty-two years ago on july 17, and I miss her as much today as I did the first day she was gone. She was my one true love!!!

Answer 2

File for a divorce. On one hand, I know it was right. He got a woman pregnant two weeks after he left me. On the other hand, life is very hard as a single parent but in the long run I think I did the right thing.

Answer 3

letting my ex have custody of our infants. he became by no ability a stable father. I enable the infants determine for the duration of a custody conflict in 1990's, they have been 7, 9,and 12 years previous and he hadn't been around them in over 6 years. they needed their dad so..... a lot they chosen to bypass with him out of state. I gave him custody. a month later the infants have been dropped off at my homestead and he asked me to sign place of work work saying he did no longer owe the 30+ Thousand earnings back infant help, that he does not owe modern or destiny help and he would sign off his parental rights and asked my husband undertake them. all of it worked out interior the tip. all of us signed the paper artwork went to court husband observed the infants and he's one hundred circumstances the daddy their dad could have tried to be. young ones are actually chuffed and properly adjusted and having households of their very own. ineffective Beat dads shouldn't initiate custody battles via fact of help subject concerns !!!!!!

Answer 4

Get clean from active addiction. Without doing that, and continuing to make the decision to stay clean on a daily basis, the rest of it (past, present, future) is moot.

Answer 5

I left 14 years of being in the USAF and wish I had stayed in longer now. I love being around aircraft.

Answer 6

I had to identify my brother in-laws body after he was in a car accident..

It was the most horrible thing I have ever done.

Answer 7

i had to let my mother know that my 16 year old brother impregnated his girlfriend. and they were keeping the baby. sometimes i wonder if it was the right decision. but overall, i think she had to know before he told her. b/c he didnt until she was about 3 months pregnant.

Answer 8

face the person in court who raped me was such a nightmare all over again, i had no choice but to face him and to know he only got 5yrs probation even claiming he raped me was the sick part

Answer 9

tell my husband that I filed for divorce,and yes it was the right choice for me.

Answer 10

Leaving Maui.
Yes for now it is best...