I am 14 about to be 15, I am not a virgin I have had sex twice and the 2nd time I still bled why is that can some1 please tell me=)
-THANX!
2007-07-07 17:53:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Your body is just not used to the intrusion. Most likely it is vaginal tearing. Take your time (and make sure he takes his) when he first enters. Use lubricated condoms and get some extra lube (KY jelly ios great, just don't use anything oil-based). It makes it all go a lot smoother. But definitely take time. There's no rush.
It may also still be your hymen. After the first time it could have healed a little and remained somewhat intact. Either way taking it slow will help.
Do talk to your doc about seeing a gyno. If you are old enough to be having sex you are old enopugh to take responsibility of your health. This is a major part of your health. Just tell your parents your doc thinks it's a good idea simply because of your age.
Now for the soapbox: If you are not using condoms please, please, please do. No matter what he says, how hard it may be for him to come with one, how much less he feels, whatever, just tell him he won't come or feel anything without one.
The risks of not using a condom are just not worth it no matter what. All it takes is once, oral, anal, or vaginal sex, to contract an STD. All it takes is once (vaginal) to get pregnant. All it takes to prevent most STDs (and all deadly STDs) and pregnancy is a simple little condom.
Trust me, any guy will happily wear one once he realizes it's the only way he'll get any. And if he claims a latex allergy there are condoms (Avanti) made without latex.
2007-07-07 18:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by ophelliaz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie it can be a number of things. One of many reasons can be (and I'm not saying this is you) a STD. Its something that you are going to have to consult your doctor on because in no way shape or form should sex hurt, make you uncomfortable, or make you bleed. As I said, no one can really tell you other than your doctor and only you know everything that happened during intercourse. I hope this helps!! There is a website that can kind of give you a little test and then give you some answers. That would be www.webmd.com. This is a great source for medical questions and something I use frequently
2007-07-07 18:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by wssuram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP HAVEING SEX!are you asking to get pregnate or get a STD or HIV?! dude-your messing up your life.your putting scratches in your soul. your to young-i mean phiscally and mentaly,you havent developed your body or mind all the way. just stop and you wont have that probleme. and i bet you cant go to the doctor because then your mom or dad will find out youv been having sex-oh well then your pretty much stuck,unless they do know,that would be very very wierd.
2007-07-07 18:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by beautiful_bahai_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How far apart were these experiences...? if the 2nd time was within a day or two after your first time, you could still be healing...
You're also pretty young... be careful
2007-07-07 17:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by aspicco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex!!! You're so young! Your body and not to mention your mind is not mature enought for that...maybe that's why you're bleeding after sex!
2007-07-07 17:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by hottone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still could be natural, but go to the doctor just in case. Never mess around with that part of your body.....
2007-07-07 17:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anna C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, well its only your second time and your really young. your still growing. so your cooch isnt yet fully grown.
2007-07-07 17:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by LADIDAH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably being too rough with you, regardless if you like it like that.
2007-07-07 17:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by maximumluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't tear your skin up there all the way the first time
you should not be having sex tell you are married or atleast an adult anyways
2007-07-07 17:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Happened to me after the third time too. Don't worry. Be safe!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-07 17:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋