once we are inlove, cant we really control it?
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2007-07-07 16:52:03 · 14 answers · asked by aLVaRo 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Good question no I think that we can not help falling in love with the people we fall in love with hahaha love is madness haha but I think we can learn from past experiences when that love did not work out the way we planned. I am sure everyone has fallen hard for someone at one time in their lives or many times in their lives. The point is we can fall in love but the person that we are falling for must catch us when we fall because if they don't its so bad for us not only will be have the physical bruises, our heart our soul will have black and blues as well as our mind too sad to say but so true. The thing to do is after we fall and we see the other that we fall for does not care time to heal and put a bandaid on our wounds externally and internally and then slowly walk again until we all find the love that we were all destined to have........I keep hearing that song in my head can't help falling in love with you from Elvis Presely drama drama hahahaha Love hahaha its painful sometimes good luck and fall for the one that will be there for you.......
2007-07-07 18:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rita 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the author decides you have to do. Sorry. It's not fair, nor just. It just how things are. Sometimes characters have to fall in love, go through a lot of agony over some female... she's got to do him wrong to keep the plot and characterization rolling along.
Nothing against you chum. It's just how things are.
2007-07-07 17:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jack P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart wants what the heart wants, but yu have to remember that the heart is without reason, so you must not be crazy and fall in love with just anyone, never make a date with someone who you wouldn't want as a mate. That is why friendship ad knowing someone is important before you give them your heart.
2007-07-07 17:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by chieko 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for me love can not be controlled, as it is my realm. It bursts from inside of me, an ever flowing source of love and giving. This is what encompasses me in my everyday existence, with my loved ones, and with people I do not know.
I think and feel with my heart, it may sound rather dream like or out of touch with reality, but this is my choice as a way of life.
Many choose to fall in love in the conditional human aspects of love, but I choose completely unconditional love.
So I am not certain if you could, but I know that I could not.
I fell in love with a magnificent man, who is my soul mate. He is the epitome of love, and we both love with unconditional love.
Loving is a choice, but it feels so beautiful to give love, why would one choose not to give that is the true question...I believe that once in love, it can not be controlled, but it can be nurtured and sustained.
Blessings and love,
Sassy
2007-07-07 19:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please. Excuse me, but, um, our hearts don’t feel. Our obsessive thoughts lead us to “so called feel”. I’ve said this so many times: “it’s all in your head”. I’m not falling in love within the idea of emotions with someone, or anyone who I am not physically attracted to, as well as experiencing more than a little mental compatibility that can only spike up our appeal for one another. Did that make sense? To me it does. Most of the time, that’s all that matters anyway
2016-05-21 01:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the question everybody would like the answer to. I think it's different with different people. And it depends on the depth of the love. Some can - some can't. Pax - C
2007-07-07 16:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Persiphone_Hellecat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude, love is a feeling: like happiness or depression. You can control them to a degree or almost completely, it depends on the person... but most people just go with the flow.
2007-07-07 17:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by jesusoffh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. You can choose not to be with someone, but I don't believe you can keep yourself from falling in love with someone. Have you ever just plain not liked someone? They just rub you the wrong way? I think it's the same with love; you just love someone and can't help it.
2007-07-07 17:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by thebabelinkin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you dont look for it, it wont find you
and no one is really in love. its just a 'state' of mind'; as you always hear one person tell the other how 'they could have never lived without them' and then when they break up they dont suddenly die
2007-07-07 17:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definitely dont think we can help who we fall in love with, I used to think that everything we do is a choice but i have had very good reason to disprove that theory.
2007-07-07 17:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by lifesaclassroom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋