Two days before my Birthday she told me it was over between us. I had worked all night the day before and did not call her to check on her or go over to her place. I realize how much of a mistake I made and this has happened once or twice before when I never called her and fell off the earth. I have never hurt her or cheated on her and she is the love of my life. I made a big mistake and she said there is no way I will ever get her back. Is it best to stay away and hope one day when the baby comes she will forgive me and take me back? I want toi be with her and the baby and have a family. Since she did that I have been doing everything I can to correct my life and my problems. Maybe when she sees a better me it will make her want me back. I really love her so much and miss her badly.
2007-07-07 15:01:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I did leave her alone and not come to help her after i worked so that lost her trust and safe feeling in me. we have been together two years and she left me once before for the same reason. she is the kinda girl that does not like being chased. i guess i should just work my butt off and help her and maybe then she will come around.
2007-07-07 15:12:28 · update #1
As painful as it is, you step away.
My feeling is that she will come back to you, but for now, do nothing to contact her
2007-07-07 15:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you guys can't be "together", you and her will always have a connection with this baby. Let your ex know you are there for her, but not in a "I love you" kind of way, just support her during the pregnancy, and tell her you want to be in this childs life, and be a responsible parent.
I think that correcting any issues you have will help to.
One thing to remember, pregnant women are very up and down emotionally and tomorrow she could come back and tell you she loves you and wants it all back. That's the crazy thing about hormones!
I would also just maybe sit down and write her a letter telling her how you feel and mail it to her.
Hope this helps.
2007-07-07 15:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Amy F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, leaving a guy (or girl) is usually the last step in the long series of many problems. If she has made up her mind, there is nothing you can do. Back off, show support, but don't be wacked about it. Also, make sure the baby is yours before you sign away your rights and let your name be put on the birth certificate. That is just being smart. Good Luck.
2007-07-07 15:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest becoming the best father you can by being financially stable and able to support yourself, your baby, and her if you really want her back. Make sure you stay in contact at least as friends and be there for her as much as you can but don't force anything that she isn't wanting she will come around if it's ment to be.
2007-07-07 15:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a second to breathe and let the steam off...surprise her with flowers....do something. Don't wait around too long though, you don't want somebody else to come and scoop her up. Besides no matter how much girls deny it...we all want a guy that will chase after us when we leave.
2007-07-07 15:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by u-wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the father you could ask to have a test done to prove this and that would at least give you rights to the baby..I am sorry but she won't come back unless she wants to..Mabye ask her what you can do to get her to come back or what you did wrong.
2007-07-07 15:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by conundrum_dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one her hormones are absolutely going crazy from being pregnant. So she may expect you to really step up and give her lots of undivided attention while she is pregnant. Show her you can be a dad and possibly a husband here soon. Don't give up if you really love her. It may work.
2007-07-07 15:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. I know a lot who were impregnated but were left with the guy after knowing what happened. Its kinda opposite in your case. Honestly, you'd have to give her time. Maybe that's what she needs and space. Or... maybe.... it wasn't yours.
Good luck to you!
2007-07-07 15:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by svit-kona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must talk with her and tell her all the things that you think, if she is the love of your life you must to show it, talk with her and you´ll say her that all will change because you want to have a family.
2007-07-07 15:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
luck man so it does work on this 7-7-07 first good story of the day.
remember this and you will be celebrating soon.
2007-07-07 15:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by Michael M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋